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writes:hello :)i would really love some opinions for my question it would be alot!its driving me crazzzy,ok lets cut to the point well i really like this lad, lol yes you have probably read loads of these questions but i really have no idea wether he likes me back or not...my friends say he does, but im not sure and i dont want to build my hopes up.here are the things i think might mean something...-i kinda catch him staring at me-when i smile at him he nods his head and lifts his eyebrows (i think thats a lads way of saying hi?)- he is quite chatty with me- he is always really nice with me- and he does make an effort to talk to me- he does notice me around school.. i dont know if this means something or not?my friends are saying ask him out he will say yes, but i dont want to get knocked back! i am quite friendly with his friends too, also i am one year older than him - thats ok right?please please please tell me what you think.i really like him and i am ashamed to say that at 14 i have never even been near a lad!i have been asked at a few times... but i just didnt like those people in that way - i really want a boyfriend and i love this lad to bits!please help? i would loveeee your opinions or even suggestions about how i could hint that i like him or something.thanks in advance xxxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 December 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks for your opinions,
and nooo i really really do like him - i have since the start of the school year and i have tried my best to know as much as i can about him. he isnt a player he is really down to earth and sticks up for me and things when his friends are teasing me.
i just had no clue wether he likes me or not and i really really like him its unreal!
i just wanted other peoples opinions as they will see this situation from outside the box type of thing.
any suggestions on how i could/should ask him out?
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reader, Lauren.. +, writes (18 December 2008):
 Hi (:
well from what you have said, it does seem like this boy shows some interest in you, the fact that he stares at you, clearly means that he is noticing you.
However, i dont understand why you treat being 14 and having never been near a lad a bad thing. In all honesty, its nothing to be ashamed about, as a lot of girls fall into the trap of thinking that they need a boyfriend, when actually they are doing just fine without them.
As you are still unsure of this lads feelings for you, then i wouldnt suggest asking him out until you are mosre certain, because of your fear of him rejecting you. What you have to pay close attention to, is whether or not this boy is a 'player,' and you do this by checking that he doesnt behave the same with other girls, becasue if he does, chances are that you are just one in a long list of girls that he fancies. If you dont see any evidence of this, then he must like you. But please, just make sure that you are not going for the younger guy for the sake of having a boyfriend, because in your question you said 'i really want a boyfriend.'
Really make sure that you like him, but just dont forget, you are soo young, and have sooo much time to find a boyfriend, so dont be too upset if this boy is not the right guy for you.
Good Luck. (:
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reader, cloudnine-andbeyond +, writes (18 December 2008):
 guys don't usual make effort when theres no effort to be made for any purpose helping them. the trick is to see if he does it with any other girls, if he only does it with you, then yes he probably likes you but is also shy (even if he doesnt seem it). but if he is making an effort to talk to other girls then its just his nature. start trying to flirt slightly with him and see what happens! you have nothing to lose. good luck!!!! best wishes
xxxx
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