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Did I not move fast enough as now she's with someone else?

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Question - (17 January 2006) 1 Answers - (Newest, 18 January 2006)
A male , anonymous writes:

Things seemed so clear, but did I wait too long in not moving in on her?

She gave me every indication that there was real interest in me (over several months).....the connection was great with us with our back and forth/give and take!! Suddenly, i'm on the outside lookin in while she is with someone in a new relationship capacity. I feel I have to stay out of the view of the two of them becuz I feel for her and don't want her to feel awkward. U see...when she's with him, she can't look at me or bring back our fun vibe....so i'm taking it as a hint to stay away. This is all just recent that I have been cut off, so to speak....but I feel I blew it by not acting when I needed to. Over time, might she miss the time we had and reignite what we had?? It was such a great, great thing. What are the chances she may contact me, as she has my #, etc.., if I keep my quiet distance and out of view a bit?? Any thoughts or approaches? Thanks.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (18 January 2006):

To be honest. I think i made the same mistake with my last girlfreind. Now i just plan to take it as a lesson learned, and try and move a bit faster next time. But not too fast. Thats what i plan to do. Good luck mate...

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