Did I do the right thing? Or jump the gun?

A female age , *ennie10 writes:

Did I do the right thing this time? My ex and I have remained friends i.e he is always there when I need him. but in the past month we fooled around. i was ok with it but not this last time. He took me to a fabulous romantic dinner every thing seemed like a go. I stayed overnight we made romantic love he even wnt late to work. But here is the new part. six days go by no phone call, he said he was going to something yesterday morining but he couldn't make it so I called him and dropped something off at his house and left. I called him after i left and told him that I could not do this that I was willing to be his friend but I could not just have sex. I told him that I was in love with him and that we had this romantic lovemaking session and he did not even call. I told him because of my love for him I could not do this and that I do not sell myself cheaply. I could be friend with him and I can but not with sex involved. He seemed shocked. Well that was yesterday, no call back.. My question did I do the right thing or did i just jump the gun? I really love him and feel he does love me eventhough he I know he is a bit afraid. I felt pretty good yesterday because I told him how i really felt, but today I am very sad. Bottom line we both got hurt because of a misunderstanindg which we now have worked through. But the thing i can not and will not be used for sex. I am not sure if I was being used - I am torn. But isn't it true if a guy really likes you he would have at least called to say hello or something?

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