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Damage from dry humping...

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Question - (23 April 2009) 5 Answers - (Newest, 26 April 2009)
A male Canada age 30-35, *emThunder writes:

My girlfriend and I are both virgins and recently were dry humping. It lasted quite a while, longer than we've ever gone before. The next morning, she had vaginal tearing and would bleed when she went to the restroom. Is it possible that we pushed too hard or went too long? What could have caused damage and what can she do to help it heal?

I suggested perhaps using something such as aloe vera gel or Neosporine. Would this help or make the problem worse?

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A male reader, JemThunder Canada +, writes (26 April 2009):

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hands down317,

thanks very much! she said she is feeling much better now after a few days. guess sometimes you just gotta let nature do its thing.

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A female reader, hands_down317 United States +, writes (23 April 2009):

hands_down317 agony auntYou won't bust her hymen by dry humping. Trust a girl on that for sure. Her hymen won't tear or "break" unless you have sex or put your finger(s) deep inside her. do not use aloevera. I think you can try prevent this by loosing some layers next time so your in you're both in your underwear, really light clothing won't be as easy to irritate her vagina, just make sure that if you cum, it can't go through the layers of fabric.

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A male reader, Who United States +, writes (23 April 2009):

Who agony auntAll weomen lose their hymen sooner or later, no big deal how, if that is what it is. if not better tomorrow, see a medical professional.

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A male reader, Who United States +, writes (23 April 2009):

Who agony auntGoogle "hymen"

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A female reader, hands_down317 United States +, writes (23 April 2009):

hands_down317 agony auntThis happened between my boyfriend and I one time, and if you were wearing jeans it could have just rubbed to hard. It could have been a combonation of both hard and long. It should only take a couple of days to (about 3) for her to feel comfortable again. Just take a dry-humping break for the time being.

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