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writes: my ex david works for my dad and i grew up with him and i truly love him as a friend and i'm engaged to another man Jay* now and my dad has no idea. He's one of those men that takes no mess and hasn't really got to know my fiance but believe that no-one is good enough for me. But I love Jay* with all my heart and want to marry him. I'm just afraid that my dad is going to disapprove and make our lives really difficult and since my ex and him are friends to a point where he calls my dad Jack which no one but my mom can call him. I don't know if he's going to hurt Jay* or run him off. I don't know if we should just get married or talk to my father first. Please help me decide what to do. I'm so confused...
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 December 2006): i think you need to trust your father. Your his little girl and in his mind no one is ever gonna be good enough but if you love him he can't tell you not to. It's unfair to your dad to get married and not tell him cause the happiest day of a fathers life is seeing his little girl get happily married. You can warn your fiancee that he doesn't know and might take it poorly but if he really loves you than he'll stay strong for you. I understand your fears but i think you need to give your dad a chance, he loves you and he only wants the best for you. Trust your family and your heart and you can't go wrong
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