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writes: I met this guy when I was 14 he was 16 we dated for a year and broke up, but remained really good friends. 10 years later I still love him and he feel the same. The only problem is he is seperated from his wife, and I have a boyfriend. I have never stopped loving him since the day we met. Could it be true love or something we need to let go?
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reader, Cerberus_Raphael  +, writes (5 December 2010):
 Answer me this then, have you two been keeping in contact with each other all this time? Do you know for sure that you love him?
If you feel this way about him, why are you even with your current boyfriend? He seems like more of a burden then a romantic partner. You need to sort everything out. What is it you two actually want? Is it each other? If it is, your first priority is to straighten your life out, make sure you leave nothing that will compromise whatever future you have with him. He needs to do the same. If you can do this, there is no reason why you cannot be together.
10 years is a long time and such a thing may lead you to believe that your love for each other is impregnable and 'meant to be' but I beg of you, make sure that this is what you both want and take a look at why. Make sure you fell in love with HIM and not the memories you two have together.
I hope that helps.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 December 2010): Sounds like you haven't been able to let it go! You owe it to yourself to give it another chance.
-Tante Victoire
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reader, tennisstar88  +, writes (5 December 2010):
 If it was true love then he would still be yours.. It's something you need to let go, 10 years dwelling on it is much too long.
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