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Confused?? help! I love him and want him back...what should I do?

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Question - (4 September 2008) 1 Answers - (Newest, 4 September 2008)
A female United States age 26-29, anonymous writes:

so my me and my boyfriend broke up...but we where still talkin and where still in love so he found out i wa stalkin to a different dude so he called me and started snapping but idk why bc he always messin wit other gurls when we even goin out so he thought i was having sex with the otha dude so he told me he was gonna ask him so my ex told me he saw him and he asked him about it then he said "naw" because we really wearnt so den my ex was like "i coulda but her shit too little so i told her wen she start fingerin herself get back at me".

so tha boy i talk to was askin me all these questions.

then i saw my ex and some gurl picture together kissing on myspace so i asked her did she go wit him or talk to him so this bitch like "i aint tryna be rude but her told me to tell you to stay outta his business, and he said he dont fucks wit you no more" ooooooooooo i wanted to cuss her ass out.

but i just kept it cool like i aint even give a fuck.

so i just changed tha subject.

so my ex write me on myspace like "stay tah fuck outta my business i told you im done wit u wut chu thought i was playin" so im like "if you all in my business why cant i be in urs and naw i aint think you was playin, i knew you was serious" you kno i gotta play it cool.

so im waitin to see wut he reply.

but tell what what you think plz....do he love me or not??

is he just tryna get me back or he really doesnt want me anymore? i really love him and want to work things out so tell me what i should do plz! thanks!

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (4 September 2008):

Why would you want a guy like this back...so you can go through the same stuff over again..you make yourself look bad by getting deeper into the situation..I.e. Messaging the girl and him on myspace...do not message him anymore..do not even look at his page if it hurts you that much.....and don't wait for him to reply to your message...do yourself a favor and forget him..act as if you don't care...because while you are moving on..he will probably be going through that same drama with a different girl...just move on with your life and go on to acheive your goals...this immature drama doesn't last forever...you are young and you will find someone who will treat you better..just remember that he is the other girls problem now...not yours...and that you do not have to deal with his infidelity no longer.

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