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anonymous
writes:Hey there!I'm a 15 year old girl and I highly question my sexuality.. I really am attracted to guys with feminine looks and I really enjoy reading gay stories (I know it's just weird but it's hot too LOL)..I have never gone with a guy on a date, and I'm a virgin in all ways, including holding hands and kissing.. I never did anything like that!When I'm around girls, I feel pretty comfortable, and I'm not really attracted to them physically, I refuse holding their hands or hugging them too.I still don't know if I'm bi, lesbian or straight, so I'd appreciate it if you help me out!!
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reader, dirtball  +, writes (27 August 2010):
 If you're attracted to feminine boys, that doesn't make you gay, that's just your thing. The Femmy/emo look is pretty popular right now so I can understand the draw.
The fact that you enjoy reading gay stories isn't that odd. Many women report watching gay porn, but again, that doesn't make them gay or bi.
You're still young, and should be in no hurry to experience things before you're ready. To me, you sound like someone who is doing just what she should be for her age. There will be plenty of time for you to develop your tastes and discover your sexuality. Have fun enjoying your youth right now.
Your tastes will likely change as you mature. I know that I'm attracted to different girls now then I was when I was 15. Take your time, and don't worry about this stuff. You'll know if you're gay, just as you'll know if you're strait. My vote would be straight based on the info you've given, but really, there is no rush to find out. Also, there is no need to classify yourself as anything at your age.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 August 2010): You are not homosexual in any way that I can tell. You are just looking for more sensitive and caring boys. There is nothing wrong with that.
As for not wanting to hug your "girl friends" there is also nothing with with that either, some people don't like unnecessary contact.
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