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Changed my mind about our Open relationship...

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Question - (6 February 2005) 1 Answers - (Newest, 19 December 2005)
A , anonymous writes:

me and my boyfriend decided to have an open relationship after a wonderful year together. i thought that i wanted to date other men but after a couple of dates i knew it wasnt the right thing for me. i have been hurt bad in the past real bad and it has taken its toll on this relationship. i don't want to lose him. half of him wants to come back to me and half of him wants to still run around. as im so scared of getting hurt again i tend to block out out my emotions, he may be losing me! please help me on what i should do, please!

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A female reader, beenthere +, writes (19 December 2005):

open relationships are a bad idea. things like this usually happen where one partner, usually the man, is perfectly happy to know he can run around and see other women and the woman (usually) finds it uncomfortable and becomes jealous. you are either part of a couple or not. if you really want to be with this man then you need to tell him how you feel and let him decide for himself if he wants a committed relationship with you or to play the field

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