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writes: ok here goes.. broke up with the girlfriend a few weeks ago and there has been no contact..she never called about her stuff, returning my key, or my few belongings at her place..I basically broke it off with her over some issues we had been having..Since then I haven't heard anything at all..I know I'm grasping at straws here, but whats going on here..is she done? is she holding onto my stuff in hopes that I call?
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 January 2010): The real question you didn't ask is,,, "is there any chance we can get back together??"
If this was really about just getting keys back and getting your krap back, You would have called her, or asked a good buddy of your's to go get your krap and keys back, and return her stuff to her.
Dude, the relationship is DOA. Call her or have a buddy call get each other's stuff back to them and move on with life.
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reader, ms.rafaeli  +, writes (9 January 2010):
 The thing that i do to heal my wound after breaking up with a guy is no contact at all with him. I would really want to call or text him badly, but I won't. probably, she is doing the same thing. If you wanna contact her just to get your stuffs back, then go ahead just text her. If i were her, I wouldn't want to contact you. But, if you're planning to go back with her, then call her and have a lil chat with her about the problem, whether or not you both could compromise.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 January 2010): anyone else? i would like to get a few more female answers here? what would be going through your head? mind you, she did not even contact me for christmas or the new year...the way i look at it is that she may have called/texted/e-mailed about her or my stuff as a way to just start up a convo, but she never did..so i'm thinking she is over it.
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reader, superwoman021  +, writes (8 January 2010):
it sounds like she is still hurting and is hoping that you will make contact with her, from a girls point of view it is heart breaking and it sounded serious so, maybe you should ask to meet up and disscuss what went wrong and ask if you can have your things back, plus her seeing you will help her in many ways.
good luck xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 January 2010): I just brokeup with my bf one week ago. I want to call him so bad, but I can't (my strategy of getting him back doesn't let me do that)- I want him to call me first hahah. Your question makes me think if he thinks the same hhahhahah-waiting for my call hhaha
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