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Broke up with ex-want her back and she isn't sure?

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Question - (7 January 2009) 1 Answers - (Newest, 7 January 2009)
A male United States age 36-40, *hatnow writes:

I have a real problem. My girlfriend and I dated for 4 years and have a child together. We broke up, mainly because I did not pay her enough attention and she thought I did not care about you. It's been two months or so since the breakup. I want to get back with her, and she said she notices that I am a different person. But she doesn't want to be with me right now. She said she is torn about it.

She still has strong feelings for me. I know this because we still hug/kiss and act strongly towards each other. I tried leaving her alone to help her make up her mind but she told me that I am only making it easier for her. What should I do? Should I stick around continuing this with her to see where it leads or what? I definitely do not want to lose her.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (7 January 2009):

be upfront and tell her how much you love her,write her a poem or a love letter and dont get angry when she asks you to be patient,give her time and space,remember you broke up with her and that must of really hurt,if you was meant to be together it will happen.

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