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writes:Hello all, I need advice on breaking up with my current boyfriend. We've been going out about 2 months, and I just don't feel like it's going anywhere, and also I'm moving in a couple of months so we will be pretty far from each other. I need advice on being as nice as possible (I know 'nice' doesn't really mix with 'break-up'), I really don't want to hurt this guy, as he has been great to me. Thank you! Reply to this Question
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reader, The Realist  +, writes (22 June 2010):
 I would like to add that I agree with it being in a private place but also make sure it is a place where you can leave from easily. The last thing anyone wants is to be stuck with a angry or sad person while they can't think straight and will just make things worse. Make it a place where you can leave from because if he is clingy he may not leave, say the car or your house right away.
Hope it goes well, as well as a break up can go.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 June 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionok, Thanks again for your opinion.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 June 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you both, your answers are very helpful. Do you have any ideas about, where should we meet, when should I tell him, etc?? Should we meet and I tell him right away? Thanks again.
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reader, The Realist +, writes (21 June 2010):
Either way its going to hurt but it has also only been two months so the recovery will be faster. Tell him how you truely feel and give him a full honest explaination about the break up. This way he'll still hurt initially but when his head clears he will understand everything and learn from it. This way even though there is pain involved you both can come away from it with a better understanding of yourselves and relationships.
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