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anonymous
writes:I am with my boyfriend for four years now. He is a very caring person and I love him a lot. But My question is that he is very touchy-feely. Whenever he is with me he cannot keep his hands off me . He never can just hug me or kiss me without trying to take it further. So, is it just lust or love? Does he just want me for sex? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 October 2010): My boyfriend does the same things to me when we are in private as in only two person. Does your boyfriend does that in the presence of others? Or does he only do that to you when you guys are together?
Anyway, being in love for 4 years does not purely speaks about lust nor love. It is definitely a combination of both! Trust me its nothing bad =)
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reader, happy140 +, writes (21 October 2010):
 Your young and need to understand men a little more. Yes we always want sex and no we do not always expect it or expect you to want it. I am also a touchy feely person. I like the physical contact; it makes me feel closer to the one I am with. Know that men masturbate; as I am sure he has and he wants to take it further-do not let him until you are ready. He wants you in a sexual way but also wants to be close; sometimes we cannot have both for a while. Remember he is at his sexual peak and a man being visual sex is everywhere. Then he has the added burden of all his friends are getting “it” so why is not him. The truth is they are not all getting “it”. Understand his needs, explain why you say no, and do only what you are comfortable with. There is more than intercourse when your together so do not allow him to pressure you. He likes and desires you and if he did not get touchy feely then you would be saying, “Why won’t he touch me”. Enjoy the attention.
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