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writes:Dear CupidMy bf of 1 year is ignoring me often. He talks to me only when he is bored or needs some help. He ignores me other times. I started doubting whether he loves me or he is just using me. I love him a lot, but it looks like i am the one investing more into the relationship. He never talks about any future with me. Please help me. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 February 2011): Dump him. He is obviously not looking for a relationship with you and is using you to fill a gap in his life. You can do so much better and deserve someone who will spend time with you.
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reader, JDinCali +, writes (27 February 2011):
 Sorry to say, he doesn't find you interesting. If you're staying because you think he's attractive then, that's more reason to leave, because, all he is a pretty face. He's rather shallow for keeping your around and being insensitive to your feelings. You're not his pet and don't allow him to degrade you like one.
You deserve a guy who's interested in you, who wants small talk, who puts effort into getting to know you. When a guy looks at you, look into his eyes, because if his pupils dilate then you know he really, really likes you. ;)
It's better to have a decent looking guy who treats you like a Queen, than to have a handsome guy who doesn't care.
Better luck next time. Take care.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 February 2011): Are you a girl who is easily bored? Or is your boyfriend busier than you? I am sure he is not using you trust your instinct for this 1 year relationship with him. How often did he come and find you and how much he has done for you.
I am a girlfriend who is easily bored and my boyfriend is busier than me. So sometimes I will complain that he does not have enough time for me. Maybe the best thing is to have a chat. Or just pester him in a cute way to make him come to you? Guys love it when girls are acting cute in front of them. But don't make yourself appearing too needy. Let him know how you feel through words be direct with guys =)
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