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female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:My boyfriend doesnt do anything for me, his never taken me out or buy me a gift. And when im at his place he doesnt even make me food al we do is sex. Im tired please help Reply to this Question
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reader, GC01795  +, writes (12 April 2011):
I know exactly how you feel. I started dating this guy. We had great chemistry. Lots of sexual energy. Tonight I am feeling very bad about this relationship. He made me feel cheap. I am not sure why but I am attracted to this individual. I like him I would feel as though I may even love him. I question do I love him because I need affection. But reality is that I do not even know him. We rarely talk except by text and that is for him to tell me how much he desires me... Not to ask how my day was..My heart is telling me this is wrong. I was told once that there are six things that each individual must give to a realtionship daily...Love and ConnectednessSecurity and CertaintyVarietySignificanceGrowth and, lastly, ContributionYour partner must give these gifts to you daily. If you only have love and connectedness then it is virtually like a one night stand. If you have all the others with out the love an connectedness then it is like being room mates. If you can have and give these gifts on a daily basis then one will never leave you. I am sad tonight by my decision to leave this person but if I continue I may miss out one the one that really wants to give to me all these gifts.There is more to a relationship than just sex.Have respect for yourself ~ the one who truly cares will be there in the end!!
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male
reader, anonymous, writes (24 March 2011): So demand a change or leave him.
There are plenty of other guys out there that are ready to treat a woman well. It's your choice to stay with this one.
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