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Bi-sexual men-what are their real preferences?

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Question - (25 May 2009) 3 Answers - (Newest, 26 May 2009)
A female United States age 36-40, anonymous writes:

Bisexuality--I am female, and I think I'm bisexual. I've never been with a woman, but I have fallen in love with a few, and I am sexually aroused by (some) of their bodies.

I am also very attracted to men, and have fallen in love with them as well. All of my physical experiences have been with men.

Regarding bi-sexual men, however--what is the truth?

My ex boyfriend who seemed gay to some people, but has only dated (many) women, masturbates to straight porn, mindlessly oogles women, enjoys sex at least daily, but who can also point out an attractive man (we used to agree upon who was attractive)...says that bi-sexual men may like or tolerate the pussy, but that they really love the cock. Is this true? Or could this really be the perspective of a gay man who does not yet realize that he's gay and that if he had the chance to try it, he would forget about the pussy for all cock, all the time?

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A female reader, Blondy United States +, writes (26 May 2009):

Blondy agony auntIf he is saying he would really really really love the cock and worship it he is definately way into guys. No straight man would ever say that, I don't think. I would stick by what I said with him being mostly into men, but sometimes liking women. I really can't see a guy who was truly into women saying all that gay stuff. I hope I have helped at least a little.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (26 May 2009):

hi. i wrote the original question.

yeah, definitely sexuality is not black or white.

he just made some statements that were much more on the gay side of the spectrum, even though he's never experimented with men...so...

i should say that i think he never said 'tolerate' the pussy. i think i inferred it, perhaps falsely-- but he did say that if a man is bi, he may like the pussy, but he will definitely really really love the cock, as in worship the cock...so, sorry for being a little misleading in the post. this is a silly question anyways, but i guess i want to clarify.

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A female reader, Blondy United States +, writes (26 May 2009):

Blondy agony auntI don't think this guy is going to be black and white straght or gay, most people aren't like that anyways. But for him to say 'tolerate the pussy' and 'really love the cock' shows that he is definately more inclined towards men. If he were really into women wouldn't he also 'love the pussy'? Tolerate means to put up with something, usually you tolerate something because you have to and not because you want to. If he says he loves cock but not pussy, he sounds like he is way more into guys. Maybe like 80/20 for men/woman or 90/10. I don't think straight people are 100% straight and I don't think bisexual people are 50/50. To me, this guy sounds like he is bi but way more heavily into men for saying what he said. I hope this makes sense, and these are all just my opinions anyways but I hope this helps.

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