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writes: This is the most chaotic time in my whole life. Situation n.1 My BF of nearly 4 years, living together, won't marry me. he says he loves me and sees his future with me, but that unless I change some traits of my personality( ie being too blunt) there's no way he's gonna marry me. If I do, well, then, who knows, maybe, he'll start perhaps thinking about it.Situation n. 2 We lived together for a while, now We're temporarily separated while my new house gets fixed: he says if i don't want him there, he's gonna leave me.Situation N.3 My mom and dad are both sick and I know they'd love me to be married and they'd rather I'd be alone than in this wasteland.I, for me, do love my Bf and the idea of losing hima is just unbearable, still... this compromise is bringing me down a lot.Situation n. 4 I met this guy online: he seems pretty nice and all and he wants to see me. Should I go see him?Dear aunts... I know I've been ranting a lot, but pleaaaaase, please, give me hand here as I really do need some perspective.Have a happy new year! Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 January 2010): Someone who is trying to change who your are to fit his needs isn't worth your time, how can he love you if he's trying to change you? I say you tell him to get lost, now this guy online, carry on talking to him and see what happens, but I wouldn't meet him while your still with your BF
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