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writes: i've been with my boyfriend for nearly 7 years, we have two children together. we've been through so much together he's been in prison and we lost a child. he cheated on me 4 times (that i found out about). About 2 months ago he started staying out all night and not telling me where he had been, then a month ago he left me saying there was nobody else he just needed 'space' a week later he told me he was seeing another girl. who he's now moving in with and he wants her to meet our children, i think it's too soon and don't know what to do! help!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 December 2005): I think you should'nt let him take the kids at all let alone let that woman near your kids.you two were not married so therefore i believe he has no visitation rights and i would assume he dossent give you any $$ for the kids,,tell him if he wants to see the kids get a court order of visitation and child support....I feel so bad for you you sound like a very nice woman...remember those kids are yours too....and the way your discribed your ex it sounds he is mentaly unstable and not fit to take care of himself let alone your kids....
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 December 2005): Whatever this man has done to you, you cannot let it start to affect your children. he may be very much in love with this woman and she could be just wonderfull but you need to let him know that you feel its too soon for her to meet them and you want anyone in your childrens life to be stable have you met this woman? if not you need to meet her as she may become 'stepmom' to your children remember this isnt about you and your exes relationship it is about the childrens relationship with their father and his new beau let him know you want to take it slow.
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