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writes:Hi, I had been dating my boyfriend for about 6 months now. All this while, we only had sex like 3-4 times and he never ejacuates. He is also not into showing his affection like kissing or hugging. Lately, I found out that he is into tranny porn and checking out tranny on CL. We had decided to stop having sex because he said that it confuses him (he is in theraphy for post traumatic depression). Is he really gay? Would he changed somehow?
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 June 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks for you thoughts and suggestions.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 June 2009): Wow... okay as a straight male...I can't imagine what your boyfriend is thinking with the porn, but he seems really unstable. Maybe you should rethink the relationship. His problem could just as easily be depression as anything else, but maybe you should talk to him.With that said I'll say this... while I've never been into.... that.... I'm sure any guy (including me) would be extremely embarrassed if his girlfriend saw all the kinds of porn he's looked at.
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reader, cindy888 +, writes (11 June 2009):
This is not a relationship you should be in right now. He is going through too much and there are too many freaky things and irregular sex to even think of this as having potential. There are far better ways to spend your time, even if it's alone reading a book or painting your toenails. He probably needs a support group more than a relationship honestly. Look at yourself in 4 years- you could either waste all your time with him and get nowhere or have a college degree or look like a body builder or something. Which would you choose?
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