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As a married person should you feel guilt for being attracted to others?

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Question - (14 January 2006) 5 Answers - (Newest, 5 February 2006)
A male , anonymous writes:

What is considered normal as far as being atracted to others while married? Should a person feel guilty about being married and still feeling drawn to somebody else from time to time. Not acting on the feeling, just enjoying it.

Is it normal to enjoy some attention from members of the opposite sex even if your married. I thinnk it makes us still feel desirable.

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A female reader, Diane312006 +, writes (5 February 2006):

I have been through the same situation, I often find myself looking upon goodlooking guys in their 30's.

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A female reader, StarNews +, writes (16 January 2006):

StarNews agony auntIt's completely normal, in my opinion, to be attracted to other people. Its a boost to the ego to know that someone has an attraction for you. As long as you don't act on it (look but don't touch), and you know who your heart belongs to, I feel there is no harm done.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (15 January 2006):

Just because you have had the meal doesnt mean you cant look at the menu!!! Lol

Look just dont touch otherwise why would we have eyes if not to appreciate the beautiful things around us!!!

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A female reader, Dawnest +, writes (15 January 2006):

Dont feel guilty. Its a normal,human response finding others attractive even when your married to some else. Most women dream of someone else when they make love and its all a way of adding spice to our relationships.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (14 January 2006):

You would not be normal if you were not attracted to others. The issue is if you act upon it. I promise you, your spouse is attracted to others to, just not acting upon.

And when you get a response, wow, its definitely a stroke to the ego. JUST DON'T ACT upon it!

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