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female
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16-17,
anonymous
writes:One of my friends is really into me i like him to but as a friend he keeps trying to convince me that i like him back. our relationship is little bit more that just friends i care about him alto and hes made it obvious thats hes mine and if i want him i could have him but u dont want to be with him now as he lives a bit away from me and i done think am ready for a serious relationship with him yet as i dont want it to be to soon and for us to finish and never have the same connection that we do now. hes the type of guy that will be total devoted to me hes perfect for me bt i dont want to settle down yet and me and him could never just be a fling i dotn know how to explain this to him without makeing it soudn like i wan thim to stay single and wait for me to get other men out of my system? this is all to confusing i love him alot but am not in-love with him but i could see us beign extremly happy together in the future just not now as were young and have more things to experiance before getting serious what should i do? Reply to this Question |
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reader, Ann1056263  +, writes (2 February 2008):
 Well, I think the first thing you have to do is to sit down and seriously think to yourself what is more important to you right now. It's either be with him or not. Chances are he probably won't stick around much if you officially and firmly reject him, which is how you have to do it to get through to him. But if you guys are really great friends, he may be able to understand and remain friends, but not want to have any kind of romantic relationship with you in the future. Remember, rejecting him now could mean him rejecting you in the future and if not having the chance to be with him scares you, why not go out with him now.But everything is really up to you now.Good luck.
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