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writes: Hello,My boyfriend is lovely and we have been together for 5 months. I have arranged to go on a gap year with my friends once my alevels finish but since going out with him im not sure i want to go anymore, i would be leaving him for at least 4 months at a time, he really doesnt want me to go and wants to come with me but one of the two friends hates him and wont let him come, i really dont know what to do as i want him with me but dont want to upset my friend but how could i tell them i dont want to go?what do u think i should do Reply to this Question
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reader, Toria +, writes (1 October 2006):
 Do you really want to go? honestly?
Was this arranged before you and your boyfriend got together? If it was then you should stand by your choice to go and tell your boyfriend it was arranged before him so you need to honour your committment.
If you want to go you need to be talking to your boyfriend and breaking it to him, if you actually don't want to go you can only be honest with your friend, a true friend won't let it get in the way of a friendship.
Good luck :o)
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