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writes: I've Known This one girl for about four years, and I haven't really looked at her as more as a friend until about a year ago. We Dated for a while but we called it quits after awhile, I don't know why but now I feel More strongly towards her. She has a boyfriend now and she says she's happy with him but I'm not sure if she's just saying it to cover up something. She'll tell him she loves him but he won't say anything like that back to her. He acts more as a friend to her than a boyfriend, She'd rather spend time with me and "Hang out" rather than with her own boyfriend. She Tells me I'm the only person that she can actually talk to honestly and openly. I'm just wondering if she thinks of me more as a friend of what. I'm going to see her on monday and just need some advice. Thanks.
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reader, helpful girl  +, writes (29 August 2006):
 well put it this way if you was a girl and she acted exactly the same would you preferre to her as a lespian? no i dont think so it may just be the fact that you are an extremly good friend! the only person she can trust and talk to and i think if you did even get together it may just ruin your freindship, the fact is she may have the wrong partner she loves him but he doesnt love her. if she had the right partner youll proberly think she doesnt fancy me were just friends shes happy in her ralationship now! or what if im wrong is she the kind of person that you can ask a serious question and still remain the best of friends? if so heck ask her. if not then youll just have to wait for the truth to come out and it always does come out no matter how long it takes.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 August 2006): I had a friend who i could really trust, and i could talk to her openly cuz she wouldnt tell anyone else, i think thats what she means by telling u thats ur the only one she can talk to, and about her bf, dont worry about her relationships unless she asks u to, cuz thats just rude if u do that, she will think u get into her life and ur relationship with her could get ruined.
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