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writes:I feel like i'm loosing him. He lives 3 towns away, and we only see each other on weekends. And i wish i could see him more, but with school and all, its really hard. But We've been dating 7 months, and its just not the same. We can never think of anything to talk about. And its gotten awkward. I love him to death, and cant stand loosing him. But i am so bored with our relationship that i want to fix things. But i'm afraid if i do, he'll think i want to break up. Which i don't want too.Any ideas on how to save our relationship? Please..i don't wanna loose him! Reply to this Question
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reader, tennisstar88 +, writes (11 January 2011):
 Actually yes it is. He's not in the same town as her and she has to travel to see him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 January 2011): 30 mins away isn't a LDR!!
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reader, tennisstar88 +, writes (9 January 2011):
If it's any constellation you're a lot more fortunate than most LDR couples who are hundreds to thousands of miles apart. That's part of a LDR, not seeing each other often and relying on communication alone.
But like I said, this relationship isn't that filling for you anymore. It's best to break it off, and not engage in another LDR.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 January 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHe lives 30 minutes away. Not that far. But its with our schedule's that we never get to see each other.
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reader, tennisstar88 +, writes (9 January 2011):
How far does he live away from you? Hours, half hour? Can you drive and visit him, vice versa?
Sounds like the distance is wearing on you, and you really can't seem him as much as you would like because of the distance. Sorry to say, once the distance in a LDR starts to affect you then there is no going back and trying to fix it.
It's really best just to let it go and find someone in your area to date, perhaps a guy that goes to your school.
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