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writes:hello everyone, I'm on and off with this guy for more than four years, we are sleeping with eachother for almost two years and I know that he is the man I love, I did so many sacrifices for him but I'm still not sure if he loves me or not, he plays it cool, he told me that he loves me, that he misses me everytime we are apart.. but I really want to know what are the signs that can tell me clearly if he really loves me or only found an easy girl to play ... please help Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 December 2010): Hi.
How can you really tell if someone loves you? A truly difficult question. I am married and have been with my woman for many years, but I sill don't know what love truly is. Perhaps it's every day still being there, regardless of what happened the day before. Someone who accepts you for you, and makes no demands of what you must or should do?
Words are cheap. Signs of commitment include getting married (or similar) but it's time that really shows the true nature of things.
Perhaps you already know the answer in your heart? Or perhaps you only need to ask? Boys can be incredibly complex, or incredibly simple. Maybe it's worth just asking him.
I am confident that you will decide the course of action that is the best one for you.
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