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writes:I have a complicated question. A few months agos I was searching for matches on a dating site and I noticed one of the pictures was someone I had knew through a friend. We began corresponding and even talked about hanging out. We never did, because we each began dating other people. I heard from him again recently as my relationship was coming to an end. Interestingly, his profile now says he's single. We've been talking again, and we made plans to go out for a drink tonight. He ended up cancelling, and I was pretty dissappointed. We've rescheduled, but I still feel confused. Is he interested in me? I fear he may just want to be friends. If he is, how can I protect myself from this being a "rebound"? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 August 2008): If he starts talking about his girlfriend excessively about his girlfriend, appears like his forcing himself on you and/or looks depressed, your most likely being a rebound.
I know he probably will be depressed if hes just broken up but, at the same time, he shouldn't be meeting up with you if he is.
You don't know if hes interested in you or just wants to be friends until you meet up. Be aware he might just want to be friends. I don't think your communicating well enough together if you are so unsure about that.
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