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writes:Dear Cupidi`m 24 yrs of age and i`ve got a problem everytime when i had sex with my boyfriend he`ll say it was good but after that he complains that his penis is sore,so i wanna find out from you guys that is it normal do you guys exprerience this kind of a problem after having an intercourse? or maybe there`s something that we both not doing alright,please i wanna hear from you guys out there even you ladies if maybe you have gone through this experience,what did you do to overcome it or maybe i`m overreacting please advice me on this one. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 October 2008): It can become pretty painful if it's too much.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 October 2008): It sounds like a little lubrication would help. You don't mention if your guy is using condoms or not, but I know they can make a guy feel sore and rather raw. Also, depends on how long the sex is lasting too? But I do that once the man ejaculates his penis is very very sensitive, almost to the point of painful, so perhaps that is what is going on?
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 October 2008): Immediately after ejaculation the penis becomes quite tender, and it can be uncomfortable to keep going in and out after that, but I wouldn't exactly call it sore. Women are fortunate in that they can 'go again' more or less straight away a number of times, but once a man has an orgasm, that's it for a while until he can recharge the batteries, so to speak. If that's how things are, I'd say he's fairly normal. It's just one of those things.
Maybe some extra lube would help. Saliva works quite well as does K-Y Jelly or similar, but go easy on the stuff or he won't feel a thing. A little blob the size of your little fingernail will be sufficient.
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