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After the breakup we're back to "friends" but I want more

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Question - (12 October 2010) 2 Answers - (Newest, 13 October 2010)
A female Ireland age 36-40, anonymous writes:

ok he broke up with me and wouldn talk to me for ages and then he says he wants us to be friends now we met up once a week and nearly talk/text each other ever day which was more then we use to do when we were going out. but i don't want to be friends i want to be more. how can i come out of the friends stage ? how can i get him back ? any time i bring the subject up with him he doesn,t want to talk about it says everything was said. we can only be friends.

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A female reader, Dorothy Dix Australia +, writes (13 October 2010):

Hi there. He sounds like he's a closed book on the subject of becoming a couple again.

Unfortunately there's not a lot you can do about it at the moment. He seems to be calling the shots.

Did he end it or did you?

It also depends on why you broke up. Do you remember the reason?

If you can remember these things, that's the real clue as to whether you can hope to get back together again. It's as simple as that really.

Have a think about it and see what you come up with.

When you do remember, then you will have an idea as to how to proceed from here.

Only time will tell, what is meant to be.

Good luck with it. Hope this helps you. Take care.

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A female reader, aunty caylie  United Kingdom +, writes (13 October 2010):

well i personally think that if this boy wants you then he will ask you out and you's are probibly better with each just being friends

love aunty caylie xx

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