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writes: I found out that my boyfriend has been cheating on me for the past 3-4 months with his secretary. I caught him red handed. To top things off, my boyfriend and I live together and we are expecting to have a little girl in 5 weeks. I am at a loss as to weather or not i should break it off completly or still give him another chance? Reply to this Question
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reader, Learning2Love +, writes (29 November 2006):
 I feel for you sweety, but I disagree with baby girl to an extent. Although he cheated and disrespected you, it is you who are holding the cards. No matter what anyone says the choice is yours whether or not to take him back. But if you do take him back then he must earn your trust. No less or more than that. If you are able to maybe move out, or better still kick him out all the better. He now has to realise all that he has lost and earn everything back in trust. No exceptions.
Anyone can make mistakes - as this website shows - but if you decide not to take him back, just remember that there are many caring men out there that would treat you with the love and respect you and your daughter deserve. My ex girlfriend had 2 kids when we met. God bless you.
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