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Fight? Or give up hope?

Q.   me and ex went out for 2 an half years we were both really in love but we let relationship get boring and she ended it. i have since went with other girls but they dont appeal the same its been 9 months should i fight for her even if she wont talk ...

A.   21 January 2009: in love..never give up..ever..do some grooming..some courting in a fab new way..if you get a chance..some honest n sincere confession about how you feel for your gal may work wonders..n if that does not work try the green monster..best of luck..n in ... (read in full...)

Do I break away or give it a chance?

Q.   Hi Im very new to this - infact this is the first ever time i have posted a question but im really interested in an outsiders point of view. Basically i met a guy 2 years ago now and i fell for him hook line and sinker, we were only togethe...

A.   21 January 2009: hey..let him have a go at this "walking away to sort my mind" Give him a chance to keep his words..but the last chance. You do the same..take a break..join some classes or somethin extra curricular..and set a time space for both of you to be ... (read in full...)

Do I tell him? I cheated 6 months ago!

Q.   Hi, ive been with my boyfriend for 4 years on and off. i'm 18.the thing is...i cheated on him about 6 months ago when on holiday. and really dont know whether to tell him. it wont happen again for sure, im not sure why i did it to be honest because ...

A.   14 January 2009: No. Dont tell. He might use it as an excuse later if he crosses the line. And anyways, Why spoil something so good? Forgive yourself and forget it. By the way, You do love him, don't you?... (read in full...)

He says he doesn't want to be with me but acts weird

Q.   i recently got dumped by the love of my life he was my everything he made me feel like i was his everything he told me i was the one and stuff .. throughout our year and a half relationship i felt really close and trusted him with my life .. he knew ...

A.   14 January 2009: He's prabably just guilty that he can't love you the way you love him. But he does not love you. He was honest when he said that he was drunk.. if you had not pulled back he might have gone ahead with sex and later blamed it on being drunk. Take ... (read in full...)

Does anyone else put up with this kind of treatment from b/f?

Q.   do any one out there put up with what i have been doing for the past year and half my boyfriend of six years wont move back in with me and my daughter he lives with his mother he works as a taxi driver and dont take time off to take me out we meet ...

A.   14 January 2009: strong gal..did the right thing..now jus hold on to your decision..if tries to get u back..play hard to get..or move on..Take care..... (read in full...)

What are the chances he'll say yes?

Q.   There is this guy I really like, and I thought he liked me too. He would sit beside me whenever he could, we have the same sense of humour, and after our friends' birthday party, which we'd spent most of the time talking, I'd been the only one ...

A.   13 January 2009: dear girl...go ahead ask him. thats the only way you'll know..also ask yourself if you want him till he's there with you..i mean even short term..tell him to keep the long term prospective on hold for now..if its goin to be..it will even out ... (read in full...)

How do I get her out of our lives?

Q.   I have been with my boyfriend for about six months now, we get on amazingly and are very happy together. however, his ex girlfriend is clearly still not over him, they broke up over a year ago but i can see she still loves him. when she first di...

A.   12 January 2009: see if you can find another cute friend of yours to hang out with your guys best friend?? wicked but then..all's fair ;)... (read in full...)

Any advice about healthy weight gain?

Q.   Hi, I need some advice about semi-fast and healthy weight gain. Thanks in advance...

A.   12 January 2009: have banana with milk daily another option is having dated regularly...ur welcome :)... (read in full...)

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