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He won't notice me!

Q.   I really fancy this guy i think i mite be in love he knows i fancy him we work together so its awkward but i just dont know what to do sometimes he will do something that makes me think he fancies mebut then he will ignore me i feel hurt because he ...

A.   3 September 2009: unless you risk loosing your job for telling him id tell him, because thats the only way to know for sure, screw the waiting game....whoever called patience is a virtue musta never known that "agony" of waiting to tell someone something, just get it ... (read in full...)

Is it bad for me to always wait for the boy to ask me out!!

Q.   Its it bad for me to always wait for the boy to ask me out! I've never had a relationship and my friend has shown some interest but I'm afraid to tell him how I feel. I might tell him when I graduate since I will never see him again! I know that hes ...

A.   3 September 2009: tell him, when i found out 3 years after graduating high school how many girls liked me i was pissed, tell him, even if he says no, like you said after graduation you never have to see him again... (read in full...)

People say I am cute looking but not pretty, is it the true reason for me to be still single to the age of 16?

Q.   hi dear friends. My problem is that I fall in love with anyone on road and to coincidences, he also starts talking to me, looks at me as if he is in love but NEVER cares to propose. I am now finding my self giving up. I see that I have started ...

A.   3 September 2009: really? your 16 you cant even legally get married without your parents permission, and besides lets see average person lives to be about 80ish, so u got a good 60-70 years before yourse gonna croak, and come on im single and life is good, i watch my ... (read in full...)

My GF started crying when I asked her to cut off everything with her ex

Q.   HI EVERYONE, I'M 28 years old I have a sex problem. My fiancé don't like having sex with me, cuz I'm not packing. She cheated on me twice that I know of, I don't know what to do she cheated on me - with her ex boyfriend she still wants to call him....

A.   3 September 2009: oh my god are you serious you are WHAT THE HELL ARE YOU DOING MARRYING A GIRL THAT CHEATED ON YOU....TWICE AT THAT!!!!! First of all if a chick ever cheated on me, she can keep on keeping on, caue shes gone....id never EVER give a second chance let ... (read in full...)

Afraid of my 1st sexual experience because I don't love him!

Q.   a women : hello. i will get married in 18 septembre 2009 and my question is how i well have sex with my hasben and i dont love him i am soo fried that i well refus him because i don t feel conftrouble when ...

A.   3 September 2009: i would never marry someone i did not love, thast just messed up, as for the sex if you dont want to i wouldnt...i mean if you dont want to he cant really force it on you....thats rape and thats illegal so if that happened, just call the police and ... (read in full...)

Who do I choose, Guy A or Guy B?

Q.   Okaay guys, I need help and fast! I fell in love with this guy, lets call him Guy A. We had something so special and a lot in common. However I listened to a small rumour, said by a friend who I know liked my Guy A. Now I realise she could have bee...

A.   3 September 2009: Hello, i think i may be able to help with your problem. Me personally i would want the woman i was in love with to tell me if she didnt love me.If you dont tell GuyB thats not fair to either of you because he wont get the love that every person ... (read in full...)

Why do I want sex so much?

Q.   I've been with my girlfriend for about 8 months, and our relationship was great up until recently. I've become atached to her, I want her to be around all the time, and I'm always wanting sex. I can't seem to look at her and not think about sex. Its ...

A.   3 September 2009: hey man, its no big deal every guy goes through that when they are younger, didnt anyone teach ya this in school? Alls you gotta do to get your mind offa it is do something socially maybe with a couple guy friends cause lets face it, with your ... (read in full...)

My boyfriend has premature ejaculation problems, and a small penis. Should I break up with him?

Q.   Girls: does your boyfriend have premature ejaculation? Mine (who is 25) only last seconds in bed, in fact sometimes he's cum before I've taken his shorts down (I can feel the wet through his pants) or even as I'm putting it in - its depressing and ...

A.   1 September 2009: ok first of all, no offense cause i dont know u presonally, but you sound like the type of person who just thinks of themselves, have you thought of him at all in this whole experience of yours? a couple reasons guys bust to quick is because their ... (read in full...)

Married man dilemma!

Q.   Hello, Whenever I heard of stories of women falling in love with married men, I always used to say to myself that this is never going to happen to me. But right now I am faced with the truth that I do have feelings for a married man. Well, I cannot...

A.   1 September 2009: I think the reason some women are attracted to married men is because they know that they cant have them, or at least without wrecking some relationships. Funny how the mind works like that, you dont really notice something till its gone, isnt that ... (read in full...)

Lack of confidence and ideas, I want to surprise and treat my man.

Q.   I am in a relationship with the most loving and caring guy you would know. However in the bedroom he always takes the lead and control because I struggle to know what to do and get really self conscious. I was wondering if anyone had any ideas ...

A.   1 September 2009: Hello, i dont know you or him personally so follow my suggestions at your own risk. Me personally if i had any questions about something sexually with the girl i was with, id just try a bunch of different things and pay close attention to the body ... (read in full...)

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