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Should I go back to the books and graduate, then try for university again?

Q.   My question may not have any relevance to love... But ill give it a try, back in 2007 i did my matric but i failed so i didnt graduate from high school,i was gonna study neurology, since i had a grade 10 certificate i could go to college and opte...

A.   30 September 2009: If you really want to do it then go and do it. You are never too old to go back. I totally screwed up my education as a teenager and at 29 years old decided to go back, I am now in my final year at university. I have loved every minute so far, and ... (read in full...)

He dosen't want marriage but I do, should I leave?

Q.   Does it make any sense to end a great relationship over marriage? We have a great relationship. We have been together for 6 years and have a daughter. When we first started this relationship I asked his views on marrage, and made it very clear that ...

A.   29 July 2009: What difference will a piece of paper, a ring and a party really make. The day after your relationship will be just as it is now, no better no worse. You already are a family, you have what you call a great relationship and a beautiful daughter... (read in full...)

Struggling to have sex for the first time!

Q.   So, I'm 24, still a virgin and have found the love of my life. We're getting engaged soon and I really would like to have sex. I have not had intercourse before because I'm afraid of the pain. We have tried before but it feels too weird and i feel ...

A.   29 July 2009: Your worrying about it hurting is just making it worse, If you stay this tense it is no wonder you can't do it. You need to learn to relax. Try and find some relaxation techniques that will help stop you getting so tense. It can feel weird an... (read in full...)

She doesn't want me to see her sick from her chemo treatments!

Q.   My gf and I have been friends for 4 years, dating for 14 months now. Shw was recently diagnosed with cancer. She was really open about it at frist telling me about her fears, wanting me to be there for appointments etc. She started chimo ...

A.   26 July 2009: I have had a serious illness, and have beena loved one of some one with one.It is just as hard to see the concerned faces of those you love when you are sick as it is to watch someone be sick. Everyone else is right, just make sure she knows yo... (read in full...)

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