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Do women get more turned on by men taking the lead in the bedroom?

Q.   I think the title says it all really, but is it true? Provided us men do the right thing and ask what the woman wants obviously, is it hotter and more of a turn on for women when men take control and lead when it comes to sex?...

A.   21 April 2009:  "a man in charge" has been portrayed in movies and everywhere else for a long time. I think this may be the mayoral link to thinking that its the hotter way to go, but I find taking control once in a while hotter than being submissive. m... (read in full...)

Inquisitive .. exploring my sexual preference

Q.   Ive been in a relationship with my man since i was 17, im now 22. Hes the only person i have had a relationship with or been intimate with. However, im starting to become slightly attracted and turned on by the female form, and want to know are the ...

A.   21 April 2009: I went through the same thing!! I found that i DID like women; however, I liked men better. I found it easier to just say it in a joking manner. (u know, that I wonder what it would be like with a girl) my friend then confessed to me that her ... (read in full...)

I have never had an orgasm, now he won't touch me.

Q.   I have been with my boyfriend for over 8 years now. I never have had an orgasm through intercourse. I always faked it. Well, I felt that maybe if I came clean he would work on this with me, but now he doesnt even want to touch me, he says I pretty ...

A.   21 April 2009: thank you everyone for your replies...we finally had a REAL discussion and he's understanding the situation alot more!!! thanks again... (read in full...)

One and a half year, and he still has not proposed to marry me!

Q.   dear cupid, i been in relationship wd my bf for one year an a half but he hasnt proposed to marry me yet... he says he loves me and serious about me but he hasnt proposed yet...i tried opening the subject to him...he said to keep things ...

A.   20 April 2009: well, if it makes you feel better..I have been with mine for 8, and we never got married, have two children and I am glad we didnt marry because he is such an ***!!! so, honey, count your lucky stars!... (read in full...)

There is a light at the end of the tunnel and you can move on

Q.   Dear all, For those who think there is no light at the end of the tunnel read this. A year and a half ago i found out my husband of 21 years had been cheating on me not once but several times thoughout our marriage,i found out lots of things i...

A.   20 April 2009: i applaude your courage, you are a strong woman and that is very admirable...I may be leaving my boyfriend of 8+ years, and even though I left him before now things are different because after I fell back in love with him it seems like he no longer ... (read in full...)

I have never had an orgasm, now he won't touch me.

Q.   I have been with my boyfriend for over 8 years now. I never have had an orgasm through intercourse. I always faked it. Well, I felt that maybe if I came clean he would work on this with me, but now he doesnt even want to touch me, he says I pretty ...

A.   20 April 2009: yes, I can climax by myself or if he performs oral, but never with penetration...usually I feel like I am so close and then in an instant it's gone..its very frustrating, for the both of us.... (read in full...)

I have never had an orgasm, now he won't touch me.

Q.   I have been with my boyfriend for over 8 years now. I never have had an orgasm through intercourse. I always faked it. Well, I felt that maybe if I came clean he would work on this with me, but now he doesnt even want to touch me, he says I pretty ...

A.   20 April 2009: The reason why I kept this from anyone I slept with is because I was ashamed that something was wrong with me. I finally felt like I can say something because I thought he loved me and would work things out..now I feel like he doesnt love me at all. ... (read in full...)

Mistakes were made when I was drunk. Now I am confused. Help!

Q.   at a party around christmas time last year i hooked up with this guy who is in the group of people that go to the same parties as i do and during that summer we were together and all was well. one night he was having a boys night and my friend had ...

A.   20 April 2009: stay away from chardonnay this time..lol But maybe talking to your peers about what they think might shed some light on this. His ex is your friend..I think that's off limits automatically but talk to her..she may not care.... (read in full...)

Taking my own innocence

Q.   I have been toying with the idea recently that I may take my own virginity. I hate the fact that someone could give themselves rights to "taking away my innocence" so I thought to do away with it myself. I am completely ready, I have been in situ...

A.   20 April 2009: I think it depends on why...i think to "do away" with it yourself will take away from it. Im sure you ve heard it's supposed to be special and all that jazz, I honestly can't think that you would enjoy it by yourself...but if you are deadset to do ... (read in full...)

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