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Inquisitive .. exploring my sexual preference

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Question - (21 April 2009) 3 Answers - (Newest, 22 April 2009)
A female United Kingdom age 36-40, *elshlass86 writes:

Ive been in a relationship with my man since i was 17, im now 22. Hes the only person i have had a relationship with or been intimate with.

However, im starting to become slightly attracted and turned on by the female form, and want to know are the feelings normal or is it a sign that i may be bisexual? And how do i go about exploring and developing these feelings further?

Id like to get physical with a girl for just one night to see what its like but i wouldnt know how to go about this?

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (22 April 2009):

You probably need to find out what your boyfriends feelings are toward you being with another woman.

I personally wouldn't mind if my girlfriend had a fling with another woman every now and then.

Some guys would consider it cheating, just as if you had been with another guy.

Most guys would love their girlfriend to bring another woman home, but they want to be involved, or watch.

Figure out what your boyfriend is comfortable with, and decide what you would be comfortable with.

Actually finding the right girl is a much harder question, one that I can't advise on.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (21 April 2009):

Females attraction to other females is very normal. Women are simply more attractive.

In fact it dates way back with animals even... the males was always sought out by the female dpending on how successfull and strong he was, and the female was sought out based on physical appearence, becaues with animals that means they are healthier and can reproduce.

The only thing that i believe makes you truely bisexual is if you can have a full emotional and physical relationship with a woman. Can you see yourself really loving one? And being with her on many levels?

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A female reader, yahora United States +, writes (21 April 2009):

I went through the same thing!! I found that i DID like women; however, I liked men better. I found it easier to just say it in a joking manner. (u know, that I wonder what it would be like with a girl) my friend then confessed to me that her cousin liked me, I got sooo scared because I had a crush on her!!! My friend was completely cool about it.

anyhow, it was great...for the moment...I found that I wasnt that much interested after I kept having sex with her..we lasted 4 months and she stalked me afterwards.

Now i have been with my boyfriend for 8+ yrs and when he goes to rent or buy a porno, he gets one for me...I like girl on girl action..but the action I physically get involved in has to be with a man. I cab appreciate the female physique...we are sexy...all of us!!

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