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Broke up with partner who was using escorts, and I feel more relieved than sad. Is this normal?

Q.   I am a 42-year-old woman who just found out that her partner of 2 years has been visiting prostitutes. I ended the relationship yesterday afternoon when I found solid proof that he had been lying to me about his internet porn use, but got the final ...

A.   17 February 2011: Florida Cat Girl: He has not acknowledged to me that he has a problem; therefore there is nothing that I can do to help him. Sending him the information is the equivalent of leading a horse to water; I can't make him drink. Because we we... (read in full...)

Broke up with partner who was using escorts, and I feel more relieved than sad. Is this normal?

Q.   I am a 42-year-old woman who just found out that her partner of 2 years has been visiting prostitutes. I ended the relationship yesterday afternoon when I found solid proof that he had been lying to me about his internet porn use, but got the final ...

A.   15 February 2011: Hi, After doing more research, I believe that this man has a sex addiction. He is not psychotic, but is ill and can get help if he chooses to. I have sent him information pointing him in the direction of help, and hope for his daughter's sake... (read in full...)

I don't know how to bring up having the implant to my mum

Q.   My boyfriend and I have planned to have sex within the next month or so. But we desided that we weren't going to do it untill I had got the implant, but I need to talk to my Mom about talking me to get a implant in the first place.. but I don't know ...

A.   15 February 2011: The fact that you are considering asking your mom to take you for birth control suggests that you have a good relationship with her. It is a very adult conversation about a very adult choice. If you're not ready to have that conversation wit... (read in full...)

Broke up with partner who was using escorts, and I feel more relieved than sad. Is this normal?

Q.   I am a 42-year-old woman who just found out that her partner of 2 years has been visiting prostitutes. I ended the relationship yesterday afternoon when I found solid proof that he had been lying to me about his internet porn use, but got the final ...

A.   7 February 2011: To all: Thank you so much. Everything you say gives me reassurance and I will prepare myself for the next stage of grief. FloridaCatGirl: I've been doing a lot of reading, and I believe that I am dealing with a sociopath; therefore, therapy w... (read in full...)

Broke up with partner who was using escorts, and I feel more relieved than sad. Is this normal?

Q.   I am a 42-year-old woman who just found out that her partner of 2 years has been visiting prostitutes. I ended the relationship yesterday afternoon when I found solid proof that he had been lying to me about his internet porn use, but got the final ...

A.   7 February 2011: Thanks. I appreciate the non-judgemental approach to your response, and your advice to get tested for STIs. My concern over my sexual health is of primary concern right now, and I was already planning to head to our local sexual health clinic t... (read in full...)

My boyfriend calls me the most beautiful girl in the world, yet flirts with other girls!!

Q.   I have no idea why my boyfriend does this but it is driving me insane. I am not very jealous, but my boyfriend purposely does things that are disrespectful because he knows I don't like it. For example, last night we went to dinner and were waiting ...

A.   7 February 2011: The simple answer to your question is this: You can do better. If this hurts you, and happens regularly, then you are better off ending the relationship and spending time with people who genuinely care about you. I know that doesn't directly... (read in full...)

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