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My phobia prevents me from seeking medical help. What is wrong wth me?

Q.   hi im hopeing maybe i can get some help on this health question. Im 23 yrs old and have resently started suffering with terrible head aches im constantly tierd and in the past few yrs my eye sight has gone very poor. i recently visited my opticions ...

A.   9 August 2010: Talk to a therapist about the phobia. There are also phobia support groups you can look up. ... (read in full...)

Did my husband touch my sister inappropriately?

Q.   my younger sister age 13 stayed at my flat the other night wiv my 4yr old daughter. Our pc is in my daughters room so wen my hubby came home from he went on the pc after i went 2 bed. The next morning my sister went to her study class as usaul while ...

A.   9 August 2010: Talk to your sister about it. Tell her it's okay that you won't be mad at her and she can tell you the truth. If she still seems hesitant, just keep reassurring her. (BTW if she seems hesitant it may be because something happened and she's ... (read in full...)

I experimented with another boy should I tell my girlfriend?

Q.   hi. I have had a girlfriend for a year now, and I absolutely love her. I screwed up when I was in seventh grade and I experimented with another boy. It was the stupidest thing I have ever done in my life. Its been bugging me she doesn't know. Sh...

A.   9 August 2010: You didn't screw up, you experimented. That's normal for people to do that. You can still be straight now. But if you are bisexual there's nothing wrong with that either. It's not gross. Don't be so hard on yourself.... (read in full...)

Porn after sex

Q.   Hi there, My problem is this: My husband has always been addicted to porn. Ever since we first got married, it's been a constant thorn in my side. I have sex with him so I know that's not the problem. I've told him how it hurts my feelings, but ever...

A.   9 August 2010: DO NOT start a family with this man. He sounds like he's emotionally abusive. Get out while you can. Things are not going to get better, they will only get worse as time goes on. Having children will make it much worse, and it will be a hostile ... (read in full...)

I need to sow my wild oats

Q.   i am in a relationship with a man who already sewed his wild oats while he was younger. i havent done any of that, but i was in a couple of troubled relationship before where the sex was not so great. my bf could not be a better man and very proper ...

A.   9 August 2010: Are you actually exclusive with him? Did you say that you will not date other people? If not then there's nothing wrong with dating multiple people. It's not cheating if you didn't say you are going to be exclusive. You say that you're just get... (read in full...)

Pregnant for the 4th time with my cousin. My family doesn't want me to keep it though!

Q.   well ; i am currently preqnant for my mother's brother son - myfirst cousin. it was all a mistake. we were drunk and had sex. i want to keep the baby but my entire family is against it due to the fact they said it is cross dna and would come out ...

A.   9 August 2010: I really feel bad for you. It is not going to ruin your chances for having kids one day if you have another abortion. 3 abortions or 4 abortions, it doesn't really make much of a difference. Having drunken sex is sometimes classified as sexual a... (read in full...)

I like watching guys, but I want to have sex with a girl. Am I gay?

Q.   I dunno whether im gay or not. You know what? i like watching the handsome guys, i like their strong bodies with muscle. Thats why i reckon im a little bit gay. But when i imagine if i have sex with a male, that will be disgusting! Yuck. And i ...

A.   9 August 2010: Just curious. Could you picture yourself holding hands with a man? Hugging a man? Kissing a man? You don't have to want sex to be gay. Not everyone wants sex at first. It's normal for it to start as a fantasy, then to think about maybe ki... (read in full...)

How can I get past the pain so I can make love to my boyfriend?

Q.   hello! Am 25 and still virgin and every time my boyfriend try to finger me i almost shout because am afraid of the pain, i really want to make love with him...but am mentally block when thought of the pain it might caused me...i felt sorry for him ...

A.   9 August 2010: I'm sorry you are having all this pain. You really need to get to a gynocologist to be sure that there is nothing physically wrong. You can go to Planned Parenthood. http://www.plannedparenthood.org/health-center/findCenter.asp Please DO... (read in full...)

Could I be pregnant?

Q.   i had unprotected sex a week after my period and its been about 10 days and im worried i might be pregnant. i also had unprotected sex twice 8 days after the 1st time. i feel so stupid and im worried im pregnant. im 16 and im scared people will make ...

A.   9 August 2010: Sorry, hon, but you can be. It's always bad to have unprotected sex unless you are trying to get pregnant. Never have unprotected sex again. Use a condom AND a water-based spermicide EVERY time you have sex. This will also protect you from ... (read in full...)

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