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He seemed so into me, said he had no wrong intentions... Then why did he ghost me after that evening of no sex?

Q.   I commute to work and every Friday, as I'm waiting at my bus stop, a young man would come and wait for the bus as well. We would exchange polite nods of the head, smiles, "good mornings" and then both of us would retreat back to our cell phones, ...

A.   28 January 2018: I think you've probably had a lucky escape, you would have felt worse if you had actually slept with him. 3 weeks of not hearing from him, and knowing that he's avoiding your phonecalls should tell you he was playing you for one thing. Like another ... (read in full...)

Should I end it with my bed buddy or fight for him?

Q.   This is kind of a long story... I've had this weird on-again, off-again thing with this guy for two years. I wouldn't call him a friend; just a bed buddy. We'd meet up once or twice every month or two just to hook up and then we wouldn't talk un...

A.   28 January 2018: Friends with benefit scenarios, I think the majority of cases someone always ends up getting hurt, someone always ends up having more feelings than the other. I think you shouldn't do this to yourself, realistically this will not end well, have... (read in full...)

Do I keep blocking him or unblock him? I think how I've moved on is the best revenge?

Q.   I had a few posts here and got really good advice. My ex dumped me nearly a year ago. We talked a few times. I initiated contact most of the times. I couldn't let go and get over him because we planned to get married before we broke up and he's my ...

A.   18 February 2014: No you should not unblock him, you should leave the past in the past, move on with your life and forget about him. Nothing good will come of it.... (read in full...)

I got involved with a male colleague who's not single. Now he's cut me out of his life. How do I move on and forgive myself?

Q.   Hi all I'm not asking for niceness but I feel extremely low. I stupidly fell for a guy that was attached, we were good friends and he helped me through a lot of personal stuff, he was with a girl he bought a house with. He told everyone at work...

A.   18 February 2014: Hi, I think you shouldn't beat yourself up over this, you wasn't in this on your own, and in a way you could say he was more at fault because he's the one in a relationship. I think its hard when your at a low point in life, he might have been ... (read in full...)

I like a woman I've met. What should my next move be?

Q.   It all started at a friends script reading party late December 2013. I met a girl there and we hit it off pretty well. We ended up talking for about an hour and she asked me to come to her play, I said I would and got her phone number. I called ...

A.   17 February 2014: Perhaps you could leave it open to her, text her to say you tried to ring, and for her to give you a text or call when she's free to meet up. If she's interested she will text or call you, simple, just be patient, too much phone calls and texts ... (read in full...)

He said he loves my company, but I think I'm in the friend zone

Q.   Hello dear Aunts and Uncles, So, i have recently met a new friend (about a month ago)... The thing is i like him as more than a friend... the other thing is i don't know if there are any chances he might like me back... The night we met he gave m...

A.   17 February 2014: I think he likes you, maybe he was hurt about you getting it together with this other guy. I think you should be straight with him, tell him you like him, and ask him if he feels the same way, because if you don't ask him, he will just find some... (read in full...)

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