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We're both adults, but there's a bit of an age gap. Is it worth trying?

Q.   Hello. Can a 36 year old man, have anything in common with woman in fifties? Should we pursue relationship?...

A.   27 May 2005: If you both feel the same way, go for it. love knows no age.... (read in full...)

My 35-year-old husband is messaging teenage girls!

Q.   My husband of 10 years has this thing about talking to young girls ages 15 through 18 online and I think it is somewhat of an obsession. I personally do not think it is normal. I don’t understand what he gets out of instant messaging these girls. ...

A.   27 May 2005: No, you're not blowing this out of propotion, he either needs to get help, or you need to leave, it isn't normal.... (read in full...)

In every relationship I've had, they fall in love with me, and I feel... nothing.

Q.   Well, I will make this as short as possible. But, the problem is, it has been going on my whole life. I have always had really good relationships and all. I think it might be me... Let me explain. Every relationship I have gotten into has been lon...

A.   27 May 2005: The right person hasnt came around yet, shoot, don't stay in a relationship if you aren't IN LOVE. That is a very rare, sweet emotion. The right person is out there, you two just haven't met yet.... (read in full...)

My g/f's friends convinced her that I didn't treat her right. Now those friends say someone else is better for her...

Q.   I am 23 and my ex is 19 and she broke up with me 3 weeks ago saying that I didn't show her that I wanted to be with her. Her friends keep telling her that she could find someone who would treat her much better than I do and I guess she is listening ...

A.   27 May 2005: Be honest with her, but you know, if there is love there, she will come around, and if not, it wasnt ment to be. Give her the attention she says she needs... (read in full...)

Masturbation gives me reliable orgasms, but sex... not.

Q.   I can easily have orgasms when I am masturbating, but when I am having sex with my boyfriend I haven't ever had an orgasm. Do you know what I can do to solve this?...

A.   27 May 2005: Not all women can have orgasm during sex, its not your boyfriend, and it isnt you. Its just some women can feel that wonderful feeling, and some needs help. Have you tried to do alot of foreplay? While your having sex, would it bother him if you ... (read in full...)

My b/f claims he looks at porn out of "boredom". Is that possible?

Q.   Hello. I see from having looked at your site that this is a common problem. My boyfriend and I have been living together for 2 years. We have a wonderful friendship and we are very affectionate towards each other. Our sex life has been fairly s...

A.   27 May 2005: OK, hun, I am 40 yrs old. been in the same situation as you. To me, and people might disagree with me, but I think when you are with someone, you are the only person your partner should see, UNLESS, you both are ok with porn sites. Looking at porn ... (read in full...)

I know he cares about me, but he keeps breaking up then coming back!

Q.   I have been with my boyfriend for over 4 yrs and we lived together for about 2 1/2 yrs. About 8 months ago things started getting rocky and he decided to move out for a while and we would try to work things out. Since then, we have had an on again ...

A.   23 May 2005: It sounds to me like he is afraid of commentment. If he is doing this to you know, I can tell you this much, he will do it if you two ever get married. Take a long hard look at where you want to be 5 years from now. ... (read in full...)

We've known each other for years, but always as friends... Should I make a move on him?

Q.   Hello I'm a 20 year old girl and I'm interested in a guy my age for about 1 1/2 years. We are at the same group of friends and for a long time we used to hang out together for days. Eating, sleeping, studying together but always as friends. Everyo...

A.   23 May 2005: If you have liked him for so long, you either need to sit him down just you and him, and have a heart to heart talk, or count to 10, and give him a kiss. He will either kiss you back, or let you know he dont feel the same way, Id say go for it, or ... (read in full...)

Could my girlfriend get pregnant if the condom went in with a trace of pre-cum on it?

Q.   Me and my girlfriend see each other rarely, well only on weekends, due to her exams. We are both always wanting to have sex. The only problem is, when I was getting ready *putting the condom on* I accidently went to put it on the wrong way and put ...

A.   23 May 2005: I am a mother of 5, been pregnant 8 times. The answer to your question...yes. Why don't she get on birth control? There are a lot of forms of birth control.... (read in full...)

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