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writes: I can easily have orgasms when I am masturbating, but when I am having sex with my boyfriend I haven't ever had an orgasm. Do you know what I can do to solve this?
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reader, NordicBeauty +, writes (20 June 2005):
Alot of folks are not aware that a female is capable of 3 types or orgasms.1) clitoral2) labia3) G-SpotWhen I masturbate with a toy...I enjoy labia & clitoral orgasms.When my boyfriend is inside me (fingers or penis) I enjoy G-spot orgasms.Find a few sex technique videos that will show you where to find the G-spot & how to manipulate it.Learn the various orgasmic zones & have fun !
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reader, ConFuzedius +, writes (27 May 2005):
I used to have this prob..BUT now I have orgasms everytime I have sex. All you have to do is:A) tell your guy that you are experimenting & ask him to have a lil' patience with you. B) masturbate while you have sex and ask him to go slow at first. He can go a little faster after you have had your orgasm, but you may be sensitive. and above all RELAX..if you put too much pressure on yourself (no pun intended) it will be harder to orgasm..
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reader, wildblueroze +, writes (27 May 2005):
Not all women can have orgasm during sex, its not your boyfriend, and it isnt you. Its just some women can feel that wonderful feeling, and some needs help. Have you tried to do alot of foreplay? While your having sex, would it bother him if you masterbated while you two are having intercorse? With my b/f, it botherd him, but I tell him, he likes to be touched, and he is involved, and that i like to be touched too. take his hand, let him do it, tell him how you like it done, he might find out its a big turn on for him.
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reader, making_a_splash +, writes (27 May 2005):
I have the same problem. Try using stimulating condoms and see if this helps.
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reader, alison +, writes (27 May 2005):
you could try different positions and see if they work. if you dont know any, look them up on the internet or in a magazine.good luckxx
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