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He no longer wants to please me sexually or orally after I had our baby, I feel insecure and need advice!

Q.   My husband is 37 and im 27 and we just had a baby but about 6 months into my pregnancy he quit wanting to please me sexually or orally. I go down on him several times a week but he makes excuses on why he won't please me. The only time he does ...

A.   31 March 2008: hey just to give an update. i ended up writing him a lengthy email in addition and then we finally had a whole night of fighting but at least we were communicating and he said i made him feel like the worst husband in the world. i reassured him i ... (read in full...)

Is emotional arousal for women the same as porn for men?

Q.   okay just wanting some point of views i brought this up in another question and some said it was interesting so here it is exact question: just curious and this might get a rise out of a few people and i don't agree with the writer i feel its wrong ...

A.   28 March 2008: just so everyone knows the question i got this from was a wife chatting on the net and sending provacative pic and hubby doesn't like it.... (read in full...)

I love to flirt on chat rooms, and send naughty pictures, but its all harmless, my husband doesn't agree, should I dump him?

Q.   Could anyone tell me on whether chatrooms are addictive? Am i being fair to carry on in these if my husband has caught me sending photos of my bits to lads? Its simply nothing but harmless flirting and fun,so I enjoy sex talk. Not only that but when ...

A.   28 March 2008: just curious and this might get a rise out of a few people and i don't agree with the writer i feel its wrong and i would never do that to my own husband but i just curious on the feeling of this cause ive wondered here it goes: guys look at porn to ... (read in full...)

His comments about other women make me feel insecure, and I want to be more confident!

Q.   Am a 48 year old, attractive, intelligent woman. I have been seeing this wonderful man for 4 months. Just back from holiday with him. On occasions when we are out, he'll say things like "that barmaid was gorgeous, wish I could take her home" or ...

A.   28 March 2008: my husband does stuff like that too and he looks at porn on the net and i know this cause its on my computer. i don't say anything even though it bothers me but the crap is on my desktop so i have thought about just posting giant penises and hot six ... (read in full...)

One for the guys...what's your fantasy oral?

Q.   This is one for the guys... Tell me, what's your fantasy oral? What's your favourite thing that your girl does to you when giving you oral? What is it that you've always secretly wanted your girlfriend to do during you oral? I'm just interested ...

A.   28 March 2008: my husband loves his bjs a lot and i didn't know what to do and he tought me a lot. he likes it when i when i lick it all over like a lollipop and i tease him and when im doing it he loves feeling my breast against him or a hand caressing his sack. ... (read in full...)

Should I ask her to let me watch porn to get me aroused when we have sex?

Q.   Been in a relationship with a girl for 5 years now... she's my second long-term girlfriend. Before I met her I was into porn, and lad mags, and generally just liked looking at women all the time. After I ended my relationship with my first long term ...

A.   28 March 2008: uhm that really sucks. u should be totally honest with her and leave it up to her if she wants to be with you or not cause for me i would want to move on to someone that was into me sexually because even the fact of an emotional connections should ... (read in full...)

I want my girlfriend to open up to me, and tips?

Q.   I'm having a bit of difficulty trying to get my girlfriend to open up, she just doesn't seem to talk about things with me, any tips? We've been together for 5 months now....

A.   28 March 2008: this may sounds weird but when it comes to my feelings i completely shut down. its like i want to talk just can't i get nervous doing it face to face i have been working on this flaw of mine but i find it easier to write and email thats when i can ... (read in full...)

He no longer wants to please me sexually or orally after I had our baby, I feel insecure and need advice!

Q.   My husband is 37 and im 27 and we just had a baby but about 6 months into my pregnancy he quit wanting to please me sexually or orally. I go down on him several times a week but he makes excuses on why he won't please me. The only time he does ...

A.   28 March 2008: just so everyone is clear here i have tried to communicate with him several times but the tv seems to be more important he has even shushed me before he complains that i don't tell him how i feel but seriously when i try the tv always wins. but i ... (read in full...)

He no longer wants to please me sexually or orally after I had our baby, I feel insecure and need advice!

Q.   My husband is 37 and im 27 and we just had a baby but about 6 months into my pregnancy he quit wanting to please me sexually or orally. I go down on him several times a week but he makes excuses on why he won't please me. The only time he does ...

A.   27 March 2008: just a little update. i talked to him the only way i knew he would listen and that was i researched on the net about sex help and all other sorts of things about his lack of willingness cause i knew he would look at what was being researched and ... (read in full...)

Ladies, any idea why my girlfriend doesn't orgasm any more from oral sex?

Q.   My girlfriend has stopped having orgasms from cunnilingus. This is unusual because the first time I went down on her, she had an orgasm and was going on and on about how good I was at oral sex. In fact, she had several orgasms one right after the ...

A.   26 March 2008: this is comming from a woman of similar issues in the past. and i agree its a mental thing. she might be insecure about her area or her relationship or you are not getting her hot enough before doing the deed. get more mentally and emotionally ... (read in full...)

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