His friends all say he likes me, but does he?
Q. I am 14, and I really like a boy who is in nearly all of my classes. I think he likes me too, but even though my friends all tell me categorically that he does, I just don't know. I don't want to jeapordise our friendship by telling him how I feel, ...
A. 17 November 2005: Just ask one of your friends to tell him for you. Make sure you get someone you can really trust so they won't lie and only tell you what you want to hear. Be flirtatious to try and get him to make the first move. Take it slowly so you can back out ... (read in full...)
I found out my fiance went to a prostitute and I've completely lost trust in him!
Q. Dear Cupid, My fiance of almost a year (dating over 5 years) confessed to me three days ago that he slept with an escort while out of town last weekend. He has never done this before, and is extremely guilty and remorseful. He swears never to ...
A. 10 November 2005: That is a very difficult situation to be in. My ultimate advice would be to hold off the wedding for a long time and deeply consider what you're getting yourself into; when you take the man, you take all the baggage that comes with him.
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I'm so hung up on the guy from school that I'm starting to feel stalkerish...
Q. HI, I'm 16 and theres a boy in my sociology class... I think about him all the time. I dream about us kissing and holding hands almost everyn ight. I also talk to him online, but he never replies... does that mean that he doesn't like me? I s...
A. 4 November 2005: Well, you certainly sound like a teenage girl. I think you should just come out and say you like him- life's too short to let it slip by you. Drop subtle (well, maybe not too subtle) hints in emails over the internet and if he completely ignores ... (read in full...)
I'm scared of sexual contact with anyone after being molested by my cousins since childhood!
Q. This is something that had been bothering me for so long.... I grew up around my male cousins and nostly that's all i knew was boys because that's all i had been around. Well i guess i was a very attractive little girl because everytime i was ...
A. 4 November 2005: Your cousins were very aggressive and odd. I can understand why you're so emotionally traumatized and I think it's very right for you to be careful around future boyfriends, but that's just how every girl should be. Don't be completely put off by ... (read in full...)
Can I persuade my student not to return to school, or should I stop worrying about it?
Q. Hi. I hope someone can give me some advice or help put things in perspective for me. I am a teacher at a college and am worried about a student. She is quite ill and seems to need my help a lot. The problem is that I can't handle her being around a...
A. 4 November 2005: I think you shouldn't have to feel so much pressure but just remember that you seem to have someone who really looks up to you and depends on you for help. She won't be in college forever and imagine if you could just give her a helping hand through ... (read in full...)
I'm 15 and my boyfriend is 22. Soon I can move in with him...
Q. I'm a 15 year old girl and my boyfriend is a 22 year old man. A lot of people give us problems because we are 7 years apart but the way I look it at, it doesn't matter how old you are, what really matters is the maturity level. We have been together ...
A. 4 November 2005: I really don't think it sounds like you need to rush anything. If you truly love each other, you'll still be together for a long time and who's to say you can't move in together in 2 or 3 years time? The thing is, he's already experienced complete ... (read in full...)
Is my loss of libido from medication? Depression?
Q. How does a person know if their sexual dysfunction or loss of libido is due to depression problems or not? I am aware of meds causing problems but for me I have had sexual desire problems for a long time and I am only 26. I just have no sex drive ...
A. 3 November 2005: It could be something to do with what you eat. It is believed that some foods can act as aphrodisiacs, here are a few examples: maca root, turnera aphrodisiaca plant, Catuaba bark, Sarsaparilla root, Potencywood root, Ginseng root, Ho shou wu ... (read in full...)
I'm brunette and it bothers me that my boyfriend ogles blondes!
Q. I have been with my boyfriend for 2 years. He always does a double take when he sees a blonde woman (I am dark haired). He tells me he doesn't know why he does it, but would never be unfaithful. I find it hard to trust him because of his ogling, ...
A. 2 November 2005: I really don't think you have much to worry about. There's nothing wrong with looking as long he's not touching! The thing is the blondes may get the once over by him but you get the whole thing- be confident, you should be after 2 years. I'm sure ... (read in full...)
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