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Not getting enough sex, would you involve a third person?

Q.   What would you do in this situation? I am married now for 9 years and I do love my wife, but I think we are more of friends than lovers. We had a strong sexual relationship before we got married, having sex 4-5 times per week, many time...

A.   16 December 2010: Have you asked your wife how she feels about your sex life? It is very common for couples to be more sexual at the start of a relationship, just look up the term "new relationship energy". Everything's new and exciting and the new partner is the c... (read in full...)

Heavier than normal period!

Q.   I'm on a really heavy period this month, I'm filling up my pads quicker than usual. The pain usually goes away, but this time the cramps are more painful, and they're there all day. Before I came on I had a different type of cramp. Is there some...

A.   16 December 2010: No-one but a medical professional could completely put your mind at rest. It may be a normal fluctuation. It could be indicative of something more. Go have a chat with a doctor, one of the nurses at a sexual health/family planning clinic, or if ... (read in full...)

He's in an open relationship, does this mean he can date me too?

Q.   there is this boy i realy like and i told him but he said he has a girlfriend but now on facebook his relationship status says in an open relationship does that mean he could stay with his girlfriend and go out with me?...

A.   16 December 2010: The short answer: yes, he will date multiple people. The longer answer: how would you feel knowing he can't come around one evening because he's with her? How do you feel about 'your boyfriend' making out with another woman? How about the slow dan... (read in full...)

Can sex or my penis size ruin my relationship?

Q.   Hello everyone, I just started to go out with my girlfriend, and she seems like the greatest girl in the world except for one huge problem. At times she can be very sweet and caring and there are other times where she can be very judgmental. She ...

A.   16 December 2010: Sex is a skill, much like riding a bike, learning to drive or juggling. Nobody is perfect at these things without practice and sex is exactly the same. EVERYONE is rubbish their first time and part of the fun is learning how to make each time more ... (read in full...)

I don't talk to women due to past rejections, so now what?

Q.   ......how to deal with rejection? (I have had rejection many times, and had no sex life for around 7 months, some people say masturbate but i think its a waste of energy and fluid and is self harm so i cannot enjoy masturbation, and this apparen...

A.   16 December 2010: 1. Get off the drink and drugs! Generally these are not attractive to women. 2. You're going to hate this answer - keep meeting more women! You've got more chance of finding someone by going and looking than by waiting for one to come and find you... (read in full...)

He got really demanding when I was giving him oral, has he been watching too much porn?

Q.   when my bf and i had sex the other day he asked me for a bj and i accepted but he got really demanding. i think he watches too much porn he says he doesn't but i have seen him download it before. What should i do?...

A.   16 December 2010: What do you mean by demanding? I'm guessing putting his hands on your head and trying to go faster/deeper. Very likely he was enjoying the bj and getting into it, with nothing more complicated than 'it felt good' when he was rougher.... (read in full...)

After having one night stands why does she wants to take it slow?

Q.   why would a girl who has one night stands when she's single want to take it slow in a relationship? Seems to me that this girl is hotter for the guys she doesn't want to date... I don't get it....

A.   16 December 2010: Because the kind of person she has a one night stand with is not the kind of person she wants long term. If she's taking her time, she's considering you as a potential longer term partner (or at least longer than a mere fling!). Women are just... (read in full...)

Trust or not trust

Q.   I'm married seven yr old, I never had sex before marriage and I expected my wife also must be virgin and I believed always she was virgin as she said/says but after 8yrs now she said everything about her past, now i understand that she had 2 boy ...

A.   16 December 2010: Sit down and talk with her, gently and patiently. Ask her the full story of her background and about what happened with the abuse / past boyfriends. Reassure her that you love her and will support her whatever the truth is,. Then decide: believe ... (read in full...)

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