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Sex felt good, but then it started to hurt. What's the problem here?

Q.   Hi, I've been seeing this guy for about a month. I really like him and we had sex. It was my first time and it was really good but then it started to hurt and we had to stop. Is this normal? Thank you. ...

A.   21 April 2007: Indeed, we supposed that the writer was on about anal sex. Perhaps we shouldn't have, but it was a male writing about the sex he had with his male partner.... (read in full...)

Sex felt good, but then it started to hurt. What's the problem here?

Q.   Hi, I've been seeing this guy for about a month. I really like him and we had sex. It was my first time and it was really good but then it started to hurt and we had to stop. Is this normal? Thank you. ...

A.   20 April 2007: Worry not, it's totally natural. Let's not forget, it was your first time to experience anal sex. The anatomical make up of the rectum, and the purpose of the sphincter muscle is to empty the rectum, and it will take a little time for your body to ... (read in full...)

My gay partner is wanting me to quit the job I love! What do I do?

Q.   My boyfriend wants me to quit my job to stay at home. I don't want to quit my job so please any advice? I'm a 20 year old man and I've been with a 33 year old man for almost 3 years now. I've known him for about 5 years though. He's a really ni...

A.   13 April 2007: Hi Jack234, Firstly, Can I just say that I think it's wonderful that you feel the way you do around your partner, and that he offers you so much pleasure. The feelings that you are both feeling are entirely normal, and appear in the majority... (read in full...)

He wants to go out with the boys more often on his own...will he cheat on me if he does?

Q.   my long time boyfriend and i have been arguing about him going out with the boys lately. he wants to go out soon alone however i believ he may hang with a guy and girl...thats ok except the girl likes him and im not sure if she would do anything and ...

A.   11 April 2007: Hey there! Firstly, there is no way any of us can answer the 'will he cheat on me' part to the dilemma that you've posted up. After having read a few of the comments posted up by others, there seems to be a few interesting things to explore ... (read in full...)

My friend is gay and wants to come out but he's freaking out about it. What advice can I give him?

Q.   I have got a 17 year old male friend that comes to me for advice, I am older than him and have lived my life somewhat!! He has announced that he thinks he is gay and that he wants to start a relationship with a man he knows. But he is freaking ...

A.   11 April 2007: Hey There, To kick things off, Can I say that it's obvious you're a true friend to your worry-stricken friend, and admitting you're out of your depth is as equally positive. All too often, people attempt to guide and counsel without having a... (read in full...)

My Gf is always at work, never has time for me, she wont have sex everyday so I wont cuddle her, what can I do ?

Q.   Im 27 and my girl is 26 I have a problem because she is always at work and never have time for me. she would come home and she would ask me to cuddle with her. I told her she knows i cant do that because i like to have sex everyday and she dont ...

A.   11 April 2007: I think some of these replies have been a little harsh to you. I recall one saying you don't need sex, but rather, you want it. I think what is important here is to sit back and evaluate your relationship (objectively of course!). Holistically ... (read in full...)

How can I tell if the hot chick on the bus really likes me?

Q.   Hey, I think I have been struck with the love bug and it's killing me!! I have seen this hot chick on the bus I get, I fancied her from the minute I saw her mainly because she is hot! Recently I have found out the woman I liked for many years is ...

A.   11 April 2007: I think several pointers can be drawn out of this quandry that you're in, and consequently, pointers that you need to think about before you jump in at the deep end with your number. Firstly though, I don't think your biological genders have ... (read in full...)

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