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Am I making him wait too long?

Q.   Ok so here's the deal, i just started dating this guy officially on March 26. He's 22 and I'm 19. He's had sex five times while i am still a virgin. As of late he's been bringing up sex more and more often. I'm not waiting until marriage, but i am ...

A.   18 April 2011: Wow i can't believe how much better i feel after reading all your answers! Everything you guys said is what I've been wanting to hear but haven't been able to. He makes a month seem so long i guess i just lost touch with sense of time and what's ... (read in full...)

Dilemma. I want to get back with my ex, but his GF has to leave. I also want to be with my married lover, but he has to leave his wife.

Q.   I Have a lot to say so here goes. I have a big problem with men. my ex broke up with me 6 months ago because i cheated on him with the guy i,m living with now. but this guy i,m with now well we don,t really get along. so anyway my ex is let his ex ...

A.   18 April 2011: This entire post screams unethical. Here goes: Move on from both of them and start with a clean slate. The married man will most likely not leave his wife, isn't that how the story always goes? Married man has an affair, promises to leave his wif... (read in full...)

Why don't guys ask me out?

Q.   hi, I get told by many people that im beautiful looking and they seem shocked when I say I'm single. The problem is guys never seem to approach or ask me out, even at bars. I feel really self conscious about it because I always have my hair , ...

A.   18 April 2011: I don't think it's anything you're 'doing' so to say, rather the vibes you are sending off that are keeping them away. It's okay to be old fashioned, in fact a lot of girls including myself are still this way. But if you give off negative vibes, ... (read in full...)

I lied about NOT being virgin to GF. Should I tell her the truth?

Q.   Okay so im deeply in love with this girl for 6months (me 19, she 21) Just in early march we came to the subject of our 'first time' agewise. I felt insecure and said 18, and she said 20. Cool thought that was that... Then late march she asked how ...

A.   18 April 2011: Honestly, i think telling her sooner rather than later would be better. Who knows? Maybe she will be understanding if you explain to her your fears and reasoning for lying about being a virgin. You said so yourself that the guilt is killing you, ... (read in full...)

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