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My boyfriend wants to be with me forever, but doesn't want to marry me? Do I leave?

Q.   Hi, I'm in desperate need of advice. Anything is greatly appreciated! Here's what happened... I'm 25 and my boyfriend is 27. We've been together for almost 3 years. We both still live at home with our parents. He is my first boyfriend and I lost my ...

A.   1 February 2014: @janniepeg: i agree with what you said, "I also agree that if a man is in love so much the government won't come between that love." maybe i can mention that to him the next time we talk. we are still together right now... also i have saved up a ... (read in full...)

I'm still having trouble accepting my boyfriend's past

Q.   I've been with a great guy for the last year...but I'm still having trouble accepting his past. He's the only guy I've even slept (or done anything sexual) with, but he has 4 exes that he's been with. I think about it everyday, wondering if he ...

A.   7 January 2013: I am/was like you...here's my story (most of this answer is from another post I did where I was answering a different question) I was a 22 YO virgin when I started dating my current boyfriend the "use to be manwhore". At first I was like whatever it ... (read in full...)

I'm so jealous of my boyfriend's past relationships.

Q.   My boyfriend and I have been together for 2 years now. But I have some problems. He was my first everything. And Im the fourth girl hes had sex with. It bothers me a lot, I argue over it, I cry at night, I can't sleep, I call him names, I jus ...

A.   15 November 2012: I am like you. I was a 22 YO virgin when I started dating my current boyfriend the "use to be manwhore". At first I was like whatever it doesn't bother me, I knew about his past. Then we got closer & eventually had sex several months into the ... (read in full...)

I'm cheating on my girlfriend with a girl I'm infatuated with. I want them both!

Q.   I have been with my gf for 3 years. We started dating shortly after I ended my only other relationship, which had lasted 9 years, partly so that I could experience being single for the first time in my life. I wasn't looking for a relationship at ...

A.   9 October 2012: Break up with your girlfriend, she deserves better than a cheating scumbag boyfriend like you! If you truly cared about her OR think you "have a great relationship" you wouldnt have sought out this other girl! I personally don't think you shou... (read in full...)

Will she ever want or like sex?

Q.   Mainly want female answers. How normal is it for a girl to just not like any sexual things at all? My girlfriend says she hates the feeling of sex and anything to do with it, she is not a virgin (I am) but she just simply hates it, she has never ...

A.   25 September 2011: hmmm she could be asexual or if she is taking the pill it could kill her sex drive. but if she never wants sex and you do then this is unhealthy for the both of you, you guys have mismatched sexual desires. it may be best to move on and find someone ... (read in full...)

Her past makes me question whether I really want to lose it with her

Q.   So basically, before we met, my girlfriend was sort of a slut. Because of this, im questioning if I want to lose my virginity to her. As a summary, by 16 she had slept with 2 guys, given oral to 5, and used sex toys, such as dildo's and vibe...

A.   4 March 2011: hmm it seems like you and your girlfriend view sex differently and that is why there is a problem for you. you should probably move on to another female who respects her body and who she gives it to. but if you love your girlfriend then you should ... (read in full...)

Has my teacher got feelings for me?or is he just being nice?

Q.   I've reposted this question to hoping to get more answers I know you’re all going to think I’m being childish here, but please hear me out. I’m 18, and very mature for my age. Last year, I met my college lecturer, and we hit it off straight awa...

A.   22 February 2011: hmmm sounds like hes interested in you....if he isnt married and you like him back and want something to happen besides the innocent flirting, maybe you should try to make the first move or make it super obvious that you want him to ask you ... (read in full...)

18 and I've never had a boyfriend...

Q.   Hey. I'm 18 and I've never had a boyfriend. I haven't had my first kiss yet. I find it kind of embarrassing because most of my friends have lost their virginity by now and been a few relationships. The reason I haven't had any experience with guys ...

A.   14 February 2011: well you shouldn't feel embarrassed or ashamed at your situation, you are still really young and most definitely not the only person at your age who hasnt been kissed yet. your time will come soon, hopefully with a nice boy who respects you. i in f... (read in full...)

Still no love for a 22 year old virgin

Q.   I posted a thread here about a month or so ago titled “No Love for a Twenty Two Year Old Virgin” and I just wanted to let you all know I ‘m giving up. For now anyway. I just don’t understand how or why I’ve been put in this position but I hope at ...

A.   8 January 2011: welllll dude im just like you, 22 years old, the oldest in my group of friends and still a virgin, just a chick tho...soo you are not the only one! i personally am waiting for a real relationship and to be 'in love' with another person first. but i ... (read in full...)

24 and never had a girlfriend. What am I doing wrong?

Q.   I can't find a girl, no matter what I do. I can't find anyone to even go out on a date with me. It's gone beyond even trying to find "that special someone" or "the one", I'm just trying to find any girl who will go out with me. Every girl I ask out ...

A.   3 January 2011: wellll im a 22 year old female virgin who also never had a relationship so dont feel to bad. you are not the only one!... (read in full...)

What do I tell him when he asks again if I'm virgin?

Q.   A guy i like is not a virgin and he asked me if i was and i just looked at him and turned around.. his friend said oh she gave you the look, i dont really know what that means ? I know he is gonna ask again.. but i dont know what to say .. help ...

A.   3 December 2009: you should probably tell him the truth. but if you are a virgin you shouldnt go for some perverted dude cause hes immature... (read in full...)

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