New here? Register in under one minute   Already a member? Login244945 questions, 1084256 answers  

  DearCupid.ORG relationship advice
  Got a relationship, dating, love or sex question? Ask for help!Search
 New Questions Answers . Most Discussed Viewed . Unanswered . Followups . Forums . Top agony aunts . About Us .  Articles  . Sitemap
*.T.1988 agony aunt

*.T.1988

United States  (Male   XML/RSS

Like what he writes?
... Add *.T.1988 to your favourite agony aunts

Want to get in touch?
... Send *.T.1988 a private message

*.T.1988's Ratings
Excellent67%
Average17%
Poor17%
*.T.1988's profile:

I'm a 22 year old mechanic from Maryland. I am also enlisted in the Maryland Army National Guard. I love working with animals, working on old cars, hunting, playing video games and sleeping :).

What could I do about losing my virginity this way? any way of making it easier?

Q.   hello, im very conflicted about something that most people dont really pay mind, but to me is a big deal. you see i am still a virgin at 23, and a big part of that was because when i was younger and way more innocent i made the choice of not be...

A.   25 June 2013: OP I don’t know if your still reading this or not, but just in case, I feel the need to tell you this. We are the same, or I should say, I was the same, I was a virgin until I was 23 I'm now 25. I had the same problem and had the same thoughts and ... (read in full...)

Virgin at 22... thoughts?

Q.   Hi Guys, so im just wondering what people think. I'm almost(!!) 22 and im still a virgin. I mean i have done fooling around with guys and i have had lots of boyfriends but i have never had sex with any of them. Im not sure what the issue is, im not...

A.   15 January 2011: Well, I'm a virgin and almost 23. So try not to feel to bad about it. ... (read in full...)

22 year old virgin: weak or responsible?

Q.   I am a 22 year old man who is still a virgin. Despite the fact that I am a black belt, eagle scout, and college graduate I still feel like I am a failure because I haven't had sex at my age. I know several women my age that would like me but I am ...

A.   11 January 2011: You and me both buddy -_-... (read in full...)

Still no love for a 22 year old virgin

Q.   I posted a thread here about a month or so ago titled “No Love for a Twenty Two Year Old Virgin” and I just wanted to let you all know I ‘m giving up. For now anyway. I just don’t understand how or why I’ve been put in this position but I hope at ...

A.   11 January 2011: Yeah I would like to be in love for my first time to but over the last year the whole reality of the situation has really kind of sunk in and I guess I just sort of gave up on love. Falling in love takes time we are only given so much time on this ... (read in full...)

Still no love for a 22 year old virgin

Q.   I posted a thread here about a month or so ago titled “No Love for a Twenty Two Year Old Virgin” and I just wanted to let you all know I ‘m giving up. For now anyway. I just don’t understand how or why I’ve been put in this position but I hope at ...

A.   8 January 2011: Well quite-echo I would have loved to meet someone like that but, it just never happened for me :(. However when I found out that I was going on this deployment I decided that I didn’t want to get into anything thing long term so I wouldn’t have to ... (read in full...)

Should I have sex to lose virginity even though I don't think it will be as special to him as it is to me?

Q.   I have been with my partner for three years and so far we only engage in oral sex. I havent been ready to go forward with full sex and he has been very understanding about this. However, now I am getting tired of being a virgin as I am 25 and its ...

A.   5 August 2010: Wow, being a little hard on the girl don't ya think? Hey I know how ya feel.I'm a little younger but I know what your feeling, its like wow so you get me sooo when do I get my virgin? Well, you do what you have to sweetheart I wouldn't blame you ... (read in full...)

Casual sex... does it bother you?

Q.   Ok I have a quick question. I'm still a virgin and the main reason is because: 1 my brother accidentally got a chick knocked up in college and so I've always been afraid of getting someone pregnant and then be stuck raising a kid that a don't want, ...

A.   21 July 2010: Ok, don't take what I say too literally. I'm just thinking out loud.If you think that there's a flaw in my logic then please let me know but you really don't have to be hostile. When I said one night stand,I didn't mean I would sleep with anyo... (read in full...)

If there's nothing wrong with being a virgin why do I feel bad?

Q.   I'm a 22 year old virgin. People keep telling me there's nothing wrong with that, so why is it that I feel like a absolute worthless piece of crap shell of a man right now? :(...

A.   3 July 2010: I haven't even had a real girlfriend yet though! Do you know how lonely that is? And yes I know that there is older virgins out there than me but how is that suppose to make me feel better? that just means it can get worse. I can remember saying to ... (read in full...)

I'm 22, still a virgin, never had a boyfriend yet. Is that a turnoff for guys?

Q.   Hi everyone, I'm a 22 year old girl. For some reason, I'm a virgin and I haven't even had a boyfriend yet. I'm not ugly; I do commercial modeling (not the big stuff though), and I do get hit on. My problem is that guys usually go too fast for me....

A.   17 May 2010: I wish I could meet someone like you :)... (read in full...)

I can't bear the thought that I've reached the age of 19 with zero experience.

Q.   Ok so i asked a question here a couple of days ago. The thing is im 19 and a virgin still, and i feel really worried and down over it. The people who answered were great and it helped but i think they thought i was just obsessed with sex and losing ...

A.   23 April 2010: No, I knew exactly what you meant. I know what its like, but at some point I just decided that I was tired of feeling bad all the time. Does it still bother me sometimes? Yeah it bugs the hell out of me, but personally I have bigger fish to fry at ... (read in full...)

I'm 19 and still a virgin. Is this normal?

Q.   Im a male, 19, never had a girlfriend and still and virgin. And now im depressed (well probably not really depressed, i just feel really low) and worried sick about it virtually all the time. I dont really know what it is thats making me worry, i ...

A.   21 April 2010: Hell man you sound like me only I'm 22. I know how much its sucks but hey that's life.To answer your question no we're not normal but what fun would that be :D. Anyway if you want to talk just shoot me a message. ... (read in full...)

I'm worried I might have set my standards too high and I will never meet anyone who is right for me!

Q.   Hello, I hope you guys can help. I am almost 25 and a virgin. I can't quite find anyone who is good enough to a) have sex with b) have a REAL relationship with. It's just that I feel as if I have waited for the right guy but all the m...

A.   21 April 2010: OP I understand, I'm the same way.Sometimes I think (I've never had a girlfriend, never had sex, why should I have to settle for sloppy seconds) but if we continue to think like this we are just going to continue to be lonely for a long time.I'm not ... (read in full...)

Being a virgin is depressing

Q.   Being a 22 year old virgin is so damn depressing sometimes.I just wish i knew how much longer this must go on.People always saying being a virgins a good thing but I myself have just become more bitter, sarcastic, and introverted as the years go by. ...

A.   13 April 2010: Don't worry about it, just thought I better clear that up.Not sure why you all thought I was a girl though? Anyway no my friends wouldn't ditch me, but I would never hear the end of it. At this point the only one that really know,s is my best fri... (read in full...)

Being a virgin is depressing

Q.   Being a 22 year old virgin is so damn depressing sometimes.I just wish i knew how much longer this must go on.People always saying being a virgins a good thing but I myself have just become more bitter, sarcastic, and introverted as the years go by. ...

A.   12 April 2010: I'm a man last time I checked, let me make sure, yep testicles still there XD! Anyway the last poster pretty much hit the nail on the head.It just suck's to have to constantly cover my tracks all the time , because if someone ever finds out, ... (read in full...)

I'm still a virgin at 18, should I be putting myself out there a bit more?

Q.   well, the thing is im just 18 and im still a virgin, and all my mates as far as i know have done it. im worried about being one of those guys who doesnt loose it until im in my late 20`s early 30`s. i know people are going to say "dont do it for ...

A.   23 March 2010: I don't know man.I'm still trying to figure that out for myself. Just know that your not alone even though we are few and far between. And for all the other aunts out there.Unless you've actually bin an older male virgin in the U.S. or Europe y... (read in full...)

*.T.1988's friends

These are mutual friends, so *.T.1988 has added them and they have added *.T.1988!

turquoise88 agony auntturquoise88

All Content Copyright (C) DearCupid.ORG 2004-2008 - we actively monitor for copyright theft

0.09375!