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Am I being stupid for thinking we still have a chance? My fiance said he's not attracted to me anymore!

Q.   My live in fiance'of four years just told me one day that he wasn't attracted to me anymore because I gained too much weight and he wasn't in love with me anymore. He was breaking up with me and moving out. He added that since I postponed our ...

A.   19 July 2008: Hi guys, Well, he's still in the picture. My reunion went great and his mom did come with me. When we talked to him that day, his mom mentioned hooking me up with a nice guy since he doesn't know how to act. he playfully said, Mom, don't get her ... (read in full...)

Am I being stupid for thinking we still have a chance? My fiance said he's not attracted to me anymore!

Q.   My live in fiance'of four years just told me one day that he wasn't attracted to me anymore because I gained too much weight and he wasn't in love with me anymore. He was breaking up with me and moving out. He added that since I postponed our ...

A.   10 July 2008: I appreciate everyone's opinions and would like to thank you guys for even taking the time to respond to me. The overall concensus of everyone who has responded is pretty much to just let him go and get over the breakup. I just didn't want to give ... (read in full...)

My chilhood sweetheart wants to be with me but it's complicated, he has a girlfriend he has stuck by because she is pregnant...

Q.   I dated a guy from the time I was 16 to the time I was 21. As per most "highschool sweethearts" relationships, it ended due us wanting a bit of a change, some experience elsewhere etc. We both agreed that we wouldn't try to be friends right aw...

A.   9 July 2008: I think he should be honest with the pregnant girl and let her know how he feels about you and why. The why is extremely important. He shouldn't want her to think it's because she's pregnant and out of shape, etc. which could cause undue stress to ... (read in full...)

Am I being stupid for thinking we still have a chance? My fiance said he's not attracted to me anymore!

Q.   My live in fiance'of four years just told me one day that he wasn't attracted to me anymore because I gained too much weight and he wasn't in love with me anymore. He was breaking up with me and moving out. He added that since I postponed our ...

A.   9 July 2008: You wouldn't believe the latest thing that happened. I FINALLY got the nerve to call him and tell him that I couldn't take it anymore and this was driving me crazy on July 7, 2008. This was opne day before his birthday which is today, July 8, 2008. ... (read in full...)

Am I being stupid for thinking we still have a chance? My fiance said he's not attracted to me anymore!

Q.   My live in fiance'of four years just told me one day that he wasn't attracted to me anymore because I gained too much weight and he wasn't in love with me anymore. He was breaking up with me and moving out. He added that since I postponed our ...

A.   8 July 2008: The last time he was over here to see me, the lady he's seeing called and he nearly broke his neck to get outside my door and answer the phone. He was rushing so fast that he was leaving some items he'd come for. I commented on that even in his ... (read in full...)

How do I get my man back?

Q.   How do I get my man back? He tells me he wants to work things out but I am tired of waiting. Should I continue to wait for him?...

A.   5 July 2008: I am in the same boat as you so I probably won't be of much help, but I'll try. If you're like me and you sound like it, you believe that real love is rare and that once you've put your all into a man and built something together that you shouldn't ... (read in full...)

My ex won't talk to me ever again!

Q.   Hello everyone, There is a girl I had a relationship with, but for the most part we've stayed good friends. We broke up because she liked another guy, and i got pretty angry at her, but then apologized, and we went back to being friends. However...

A.   5 July 2008: Hi, I'm sorry you're going through this. i have no idea what you said about her on Myspace, but it must have been pretty bad!!! Nonetheless, that's the way she found out about your feelings then and maybe you should post a heartfelt apology to her ... (read in full...)

Am I being stupid for thinking we still have a chance? My fiance said he's not attracted to me anymore!

Q.   My live in fiance'of four years just told me one day that he wasn't attracted to me anymore because I gained too much weight and he wasn't in love with me anymore. He was breaking up with me and moving out. He added that since I postponed our ...

A.   5 July 2008: Thanks to everyone that responded to my question. you have no idea how much it helps to know that other people care and most responders were men. I talked to him again face to face today and asked him directly if I wasn't listening or looking at all ... (read in full...)

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