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My new guy would be perfect... except he's married!

Q.   I meet this guy, lets just say it's like the pretty woman movie. He buys me all sort of expensive gifts and such. It is so different with him, the other day we were making out for 4 hours straight without having sex at all in any way. He says h...

A.   21 November 2005: you can never trust a man that has cheated on his wife to be with you, this just shows you what he is like and given a chance he will cheat on you. There are plenty of good HONIST people out there, go and find one of them. In the mean time have ... (read in full...)

My boyfriend is still in love with his ex!

Q.   I have been with my boyfriend for 5 months. He was really upset the other day (I have never seen him like this before). Later that night he admitted to be that he has been spending time with his ex, and that he is still in love with her. She is in a ...

A.   21 November 2005: I think you should let him go, he has told you how he feels, what more does he have to say to you. I think this man has to have some time on his own to think about what he wants and to try and get his ex out of his head. How can he carry on with ... (read in full...)

No foreplay, very little oral, and he lasts about a minute... Do I keep working on sex with him?

Q.   I wonder if anyone can help me here. I've been with a guy for over two and a half years. The sex I have with him is not too good. He is in his early 40s but he doesn't do much foreplay. He gets funny if I try to kiss him all over, he never explores ...

A.   21 November 2005: Hi, YOU need to have a good talk to your husband, you need to tell him exactly how you are feeling. And how long you have been feeling like this. If he loves you he will listen and try and inprove your love life. If he doesnt want to talk about it, ... (read in full...)

All my girlfriend wants is to be alone. What did I do?

Q.   Hi there, I'm with my girlfriend for the last 2 years but recently since August she has been acting very strange with me. She gets angry at me for no reason and gets irritated if I try to explain something to her. At times, if I say no for somethin...

A.   14 November 2005: Ask her if she wants you to leave, if she says yes then leave. Sometimes you dont know what youve got till its gone, and she may regret what shes done. If she doesnt regret losing you, then maybe its for the best. ... (read in full...)

My husband has said he wants to wait to have sex... until we're 60!

Q.   I am 24 and my husband is 29. I promised to him that we would not have sex until we were married, as we are both virgins. Now he's saying that he doesn't want sex with me until we're in our early 60s - and I find it odd. He said to me that he me...

A.   14 November 2005: I think you really need to have a heart to heart with your husband. Sex is an important part of a relationship, it makes you feel so close and loved and wanted. I feel he is hideing something from you, that you need to know! I really hope you talk ... (read in full...)

We're still newlyweds and the sex is already pretty much null and void!

Q.   Me and my wife are happily married...However, our sex life is pretty much null and void. She was a virgin when we got married almost a year ago and it seems like we only have sex once every week or two. It also seems that it takes more time to try ...

A.   14 November 2005: You are married, so why not talk to her about it! If you dont talk to her about this,how is she surposed to know how you feel.Take her out for a meal and have a heart to heart about it. Maybe she feels the same. GOOD LUCK... (read in full...)

I made the right choice splitting from my ex... but I wonder what to do about my attraction to his best mate!

Q.   I recently split up with my boyfriend of 2 years on good terms just after we had both started at University. We both felt too young to remain in a long-distance relationship, and both hope to remain friends despite the split as we have a lot of ...

A.   14 November 2005: Life is to short for what ifs! Go for it girl, talk to him about how you feel, and it will go from there. GOOD LUCK!... (read in full...)

Just as our friendship is starting to tail off, I think I'm in love with her!

Q.   I have this friend, and we've been friends for a long time now. We became really close and since the first day I met her I seemed to like her. She then moved away from town and we've kept in touch, and we're slowly losing contact, I barely talk to ...

A.   14 November 2005: I feel you have to tell her how you feel! Then if she tells you she doesnt feel the same, then at least you know. You can stay friends, at least that way she will always be in your life.Always be there for her and you never no what the future holds. ... (read in full...)

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