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Been together 3 years and he has never made me cum!

Q.   I have been with this guy for 3 years. We have been having sex since we were 5 months into our relationship. I have not had an orgasim and he can not make me cum while hes on top. I have to fake it and finish the job later on myself. Is their ...

A.   15 November 2006: Keep in mind that most girls, including myself, rarely orgasm from penetrative sex. I don't know how you or your boyfriend feel about oral sex but that usually does the trick. If you've been with him for 3 years you should be able to give hints ... (read in full...)

Sex with him is painful and has caused me to bleed! Any advice?

Q.   I've been going out with my boyfriend now for just over a month, but we're having terrible trouble having sex. My boyfriend is not my first sexual partner, but everytime we attempt to have sex the pain is unbelievable. I've slept with men more we...

A.   15 November 2006: In a past relationship I was in a similiar situation. Unfortunately I never put a finger on what exactly caused the discomfort, BUT I narrowed it down. 1. If you are using a condom, is it the same type you've used before. The discomfort could be c... (read in full...)

My boyfriends ex-wife is still calling him up all the time and it's upsetting me!

Q.   Hello, I would like some advice about ways to deal with my boyfriends ex-wife. She filed for divorce and has regretted it ever since. They have been divorced for two years now. They have two boys together (8 and 5). My boyfriend and I have bee...

A.   15 November 2006: To answer Thomas17's question, the exwife has been dating a man about 15 years older than her who is fighting a hard battle against cancer. As far as my boyfriend knows she has no plans of marrying her new man, it is more like a serious friendship. ... (read in full...)

I'm physically ill because I cheated on her! What should I do??

Q.   ok i am dusgusting i did something so bad its eating me up inside. i have a great gf and ilove her so much, but i cheated! i never thought about it but when i was out my "best friend" slept round my house with 2 other people and we ended up ...

A.   14 November 2006: your girlfriend has a right to know. you really owe it to her to tell her. i'm sure it will be hard and she will be crushed, but if you don't tell her and she finds out later things will be really bad! if you were not severly impaired ... (read in full...)

What is being in love? I want to know if he really loves me!

Q.   Tell me what being in love is!? I want everybody possible to tell me what i should look for to know whether my b/f realy loves me!? Please xXx...

A.   14 November 2006: You have a very good question. I thought I was ready to marry my ex-boyfriend until I realized I was in love with him and he was "in love" with me. He wasn't capable of truly loving me. He had personal issues and childhood experiences that he ... (read in full...)

My online guy wants me to go to his place for our first meeting! Is it safe?

Q.   Iv met a man online and we have had conversations on the phone as well.We want to meet each other and see how we get on.Im 38 and he is 45,he has a studio which he does his art work etc and he wants me to see it.I want to see them but i wasn't sure ...

A.   14 November 2006: my cousin is happily married to someone she met online so I don't completely disagree with your thoughts on wanting to meet up with him. I don't think a month is long enough to really get to know someone online. If you insist on meeting him now, ... (read in full...)

Will I lose him if I'm honest about my wild past.

Q.   i have a loving bf everything is fine we are planning to get married soon but the problem is i had a wild past and i havent told him abt it,he knows it but not everything, should i be entirely honest wth him?i do regret i was like this be4 i cant ...

A.   14 November 2006: i think honesty is extremely important in a relationship, but i've learned the hard way that being completely honest about your past can seriously damage your relationship. your past is your past and if you learned from your mistakes i see no ... (read in full...)

My bf wants us to sleep together, but I am afraid, what do I do?

Q.   my bf wants us to sleep together, and you'll think this is stupid b/c we're both mid-20s, but we've never done it before (with anyone - not just each other), and he's ready, but i'm nervous. i grew up in a real religious family, so i started out ...

A.   14 November 2006: If waiting until marriage isn't something you are trying to do, I suggest talk to him about your concerns and fears. If you honestly feel like you are "in love" with him and he "loves you back" there is no reason you shouldn't have sex. I can ... (read in full...)

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