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I'm male, 45-50 range, married, with 1 child. Currently in love

with my spouse, not just 'love her' and she the same. We live in

the Eastern United States, the Ohio Valley. 20-30 years I worked

as military emergency room specialist, record specialist, and in

the capacity of emergency trauma. 30-40 years I worked with the

handicapped, mostly mentally. 40- to now I've worked with various companies uncovering theft and illegal activities. I'm

presently working in a capacity dealing with communications.

The numerals donate just that... when I was 20 years old-30 etc.

I do love people...when they are nice ! Everything should be

one grand total- the sum of our lives equals HAPPINESS !!!!!

How can I be happy and stop bringing people around me down??

Q.   I'm so sad all the time and i don't know how to be happy. I can't think of one thing in life that i want that would make me happy and i'm really worried i'm bringing those around me down too......

A.   27 January 2009: You are probably experiencing a depression disorder, as often many do in the early years after they are out into the world on their own. There is alot going on in this world at hand, and when we have problems of our own, it seems to culmulate [?] ... (read in full...)

Should I date this married woman knowing that she'll never leave her husband?

Q.   Alright around 4 months ago I met this girl and her husband. Both very good people I was going through a rough time. She helped me through a lot of it and we became very good friends in the process. Well early on in the friendship I fou...

A.   19 October 2008: Dear Wondering if I should date a married woman, I understand you've became 'friends' already, but it seems it's all too late to start a healthy re- lation with the type you and your friend have de- veloped already ! She is married, duh ! A... (read in full...)

Is sex between siblings incest?

Q.   Hi, I am a student of human psychology. I have a question. Is sex between siblings incest? I mean I have read it somewhere that it happens more often than we think. Has anybody had sex with their own brother or sister?...

A.   2 October 2008: Dear "Is sex between silblings incest, I'd bet you also have English in some sort of class, since you are a student. But in English or otherwise, the term 'incest' is to describe sexual activity between... (read in full...)

He hinted that we should wait until I'm 15, it's hard to resist the temptations though. Any advice?

Q.   i have a problem. i think i am in love, but i am only fourteen. i think teenage love is strongest of all though. i am not naive and i appear older for my age both mentally and physically. anyway i recently met a great guy age 16 and hes pretty much...

A.   30 September 2008: Dear Under temptation at such a young age, Not to be what one would consider insensitive...but, at YOUR age, I'm sure YOU are still in school and they have a library. Please go there and find books on tee... (read in full...)

I'm gay and in love with one of my best friends - I keep thinking the feeling may be mutual, so should I tell him?

Q.   I am a guy and am gay but not out. I have known one of my best friends for about four years now, we are extremely close and just lately I have really been attracted to him but I think he is straight. But I do not know this for sure. He has not had ...

A.   24 September 2008: Dear Wondering after all these crazy years, Or should I say after all these crazy...whatevers it is ! So all these people around you say he and you are a what...couple? And he's still following you around like the 'puppy' { french here ... (read in full...)

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